[My] Life in Wisconsin

LGBT. People are different.

Can of worms- (Who knew)?!

Good Morning All;
My wash is almost done- (and by 'done' I mean only on the line). One more load after this.
  • Dishes? Check.
  • TV? Off.
  • Cat? MIA.
  • Dog? Sleeping.
  • Dressed? Yes.

"A pansy who lived in Khartoum,
Took a lesbian up to his room
And they argued all night
Over who had the right
To do what, and with which, and to whom."

We giggled at that- But did it make us think?
(I would submit that, in too many cases, the answer would be "no").

OMG! The world is flat! (Apparently there are too many people that are flat too).

With particularly great timing came this to my email not too long ago:

Apparently in her radio show, Dr Laura Schlesinger said that, as an observant Orthodox Jew, homosexuality is an abomination according to Leviticus 18:22, and cannot be condoned under any circumstance.
The following response is an open letter to Dr. Laura, written by a US man
It's quite "tragically funny", as well as informative:


Dear Dr. Laura:
Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination ... End of
debate.

I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some other elements of God's Laws and how to follow them.

1.
Leviticus 25:44
states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are from neighboring nations.
A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians.
Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

2.
I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7.
In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

3.
I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of Menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15: 19-24.
The problem is how do I tell?
I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

4.
When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9.
The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them.
Should I smite them?

5.
I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death.
Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the police to do it?

6.
A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination, Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree.
Can you settle this?
Are there 'degrees' of abomination?

7.
Lev. 21:20
states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight.
I have to admit that I wear reading glasses.
Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?

8.
Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev.19:27.
How should they die?

9.
I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

10.
My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend).
He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot.

Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16.
Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? Lev. 20:14

I know you have studied these things extensively and thus enjoy considerable expertise in such matters, so I'm confident you can help.

Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.

author unknown
~It is not James M. Kauffman



George Bernard Shaw said "There is nothing more dangerous than the conscience of a bigot"

I agree.
And personally I have run into more than a few people on here as of late that do not, can not, comprehend that first and foremost, everybody is human.

I know how I got such an awful headache last week.
It came from this person, who had the audacity to thump me on the head with her Bible.  hehehe

All kidding aside, the woman started YELLING then...

On another blog I encountered the same woman, blatantly God fearing but really uninformed as well.
"flintville i disagree with you being gay or homosexual is a "CHOICE" one makes, God created mankind in his image, people choose their path, if they want to smoke drink, live like the devil they make choices and eventually pay for those choices."

My reply:
"Love knows no gender.
A heart does not fall in love with a gender. A heart falls in love with the soul.
PS
Since when is God male or female?

Hmmm..."
...
Read more here


From R. Lewis came this: "The {very} epitome of evil is having spiritual leaders condone hate, in the name of God, against others such as our gay brothers and sisters."

More...
"It occurs to me as I read some of these posts that the most ironic statements come out of the mouths of those who claim to believe in God.  While debating whether or not being gay is a choice, people are choosing to be insensitive, ignorant, disrespectful, and worst of all, judgmental.  I tend to question just how deep and genuine a person's belief in God is when that same person speaks from his alleged spirituality and attempts to discount or invalidate the trials and tribulations of another human being.
Choosing to be a decent person should be a higher priority for those who do not have personal experience with struggles or circumstances which they are offering an opinion about. 
Far too many people use their religious beliefs simply as an excuse to avoid being a decent person.  They hide behind principles which completely contradict God, (yet blame God for the indecency, insensitivity, and disrespect in which they express themselves).  I suspect that if an individual's life is so pure and free from personal struggle, he would be the most compassionate, kind, sensitive, respectful, warm hearted person on the planet.  Since that is not the case with those of you who so willingly choose to pass judgment on others, I suggest that you redirect your focus on the very real personal struggles that your own lives present - despite how desperately you attempt to deny them."


And finally...
"The current decision to condemn homosexuality is primarily an emotional decision rather than one that is well thought out. Yet, the happiness and well-being of our sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, and friends is at stake.
We must learn how to live reasonably and knowledgeably with homosexuality."
From here



I know that
there are at least three same-sex relationships described in the bible.

"Despite what's being said by many Christian writers, biblical faithfulness and an acceptance of homosexuality are compatible." -from here

I have learned there are a vast many documented cases of animal homosexuality.

I have seen so much hypocrisy and idiocy from people who refuse to learn.
As momma stated, here, "if i turn on the TV and ellen is on i turn it, i just wish she would get saved, she seems to have great sense of humor." -
How the hell could she know Ellen is funny if she doesn't even watch her?!?
And whom does Ellen need saving from?

Also stated there: "In my house if a show has or refers to homosexuality we switch channels, in hopes if enough people do that then they will eventually realize that is not accepted as normal behaviour."
Yeah, that's right, Lady.
Pretend it doesn't exist!
Look the other way. Or hey, go bury your head in the sand. Either way, you learn nothing.
But then how do you decide that you might have anything important or informed to contribute?

We also know by now that it is not necessary to renounce homosexuality in order to become a loving parent. Many many LGBT  folks have adopted children, or bore their own, and their children are just fine- (Straight even)! Imagine that?!

Even if we take assertation that without family, there would be no society, it's irrelevant.
Family has existed, and society, as an outgrowth of that or not, has come into being.
Societies that were overwhelmingly traditional-family have fallen, or been full of terrible tyranny and nasty tortures. The family didn't prevent those things.


I have done a lot of reading since Momma and Doubtfire tried to upset me. (Incidentally, that usually doesn't work with me, as I already know that there are many other more important lives to truly be upset about).
Doubtfire on my recent Texas blog, here, wrote, "
They made same sex marriage legal and I find that appalling and wrong but then the people didn't get to vote on that, the "suits" did that."

~I am not, and still am not, too sure what she meant.
(But CaseyAnne did give her the comeuppance she so badly needed). Yay Casey!


I have done much learning, but there are things I still do not understand.

Perhaps some of you will answer my questions?

  • We have often heard that gay marriage will destroy straight marriage.
    • How, exactly, does that work? I don't see how legalizing gay marriage would harm your own.
    • Know I ask with all sincerity, what am I missing?
  • Why do you care what happens in other peoples lives (or bedrooms)?
  • To date, 4416 American soldiers have died in Iraq.
    • How many were gay?
  • If God is love, how come many only preach hatred toward others?
  • How can parents who believe in "unconditional love" set forth conditions of that same love?
  • How can anyone who claims to have a close relationship with their God, even think of condemning others?
    • Isn't God love?

  • What was that Golden Rule again?
  • What if God is gay?
~From  Galatians 3:28  " There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus."  
  • I wonder then, where does Galations leave homophobes?

Obviously, the LGBT community have an uphill battle on their hands.
Know that even though I did not "choose" to be straight, I am. (That's sarcasm there kids). You simply don't get to choose.
I will help the LGBT effort any way that I can.

Sadly, I believe that in another generation we will look back and question why we had to hurt so many good and decent people in the process!

I know more than a few LGBT couples that have been together longer than most heterosexual couples I know- (So what's your beef again)?


As with my stance on our recent HealthCare debate, I will let history answer the outcome.


To those who don't offer their hearts, fear is your chosen malignant cancer.
It is surely not my own!


And as the title states, "People are different." 
Get over it.
And get over yourself too.


XOXO
Me

Why can't people look at the phrase 'liberty and justice for all' and simply accept that 'all' means 'all'?

top image from here

235 comments:

  1. Note:

    Please also see:
    http://www.religioustolerance.org/hot_menu.htm

    Writing to ask if I could use their material, I received permission, plus the thank you:  "for using our material." Regards, Bruce Robinson,  ReligiousTolerance.org

    About the "Religious Tolerance" web site:
    "We are unlike probably 99% of the religious websites on the Internet. We do not promote:A single religion.A single point of view on "hot" religious topics.A single point of view on controversial social problems.Instead, we try to explain all viewpoints fairly, accurately, completely, and with balance.As a result, you may well find material here that agrees with your beliefs.
    You will probably find other opinions that contradict your beliefs.

    Please don't E-mail us because you find information here that you don't agree with. That is to be expected."

    XOXO
    Me

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  2. Very well written and thought out as usual. I have a Step-Brother that has been with his partner for 14 years now and they are as much in love now as then. Not many hetros I can think of can say the same thing.

    oxox,
    snotball

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  3. Thank you Sweet Snotball!
    Your step brother is doing better than I did by my 2 marriages, added together!
    Please give him my very best.

    I know it is none of my business, but how has the rest of his family done by him? Accepted or disowned?
    I am just curious- Did anyone ever tell him to "fix" himself?
    I see a lot of that from people who do not understand that people are people everywhere. And that if someone is not reflective of 'their' ideals then they must be broken somehow...

    XOXO
    Me

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  4. Surprisingly, the only one that really rejected him and that VERY forcefully, was his wife at the time of him "coming out". They had been married for 13 years and he had fought and prayed all of those 13 years. When he finally came to terms and "came out" she took their adopted son (My nephew by blood, son of my full Sister) and told him that his "choice" was contagious and that he was not going to "infect" HER son. Ryan was 4 at the time and the apple of his Daddy's eye. Tim has not seen his Son for 14 years. It was in the divorce decree that he was allowed NO contact with his son. She told Tim, that if he did attempt to see Ryan, she knew people ALL over the world and would completely disappear. This from a "christian" woman. It has broken Tim's heart to not see his son, but now that Ryan is 18, if he chooses, he can legally look for Tim. I can only hope he does.

    I talk to him every chance I get. He lives in Miami and sings and writes music as well as managing singers. He is a wonderful, loving person. When we were growing up, he stood between his mother and myself many times and defended me. I have never held his "choice" against him and we have even gone so far as to drool over the same men, LOL. THAT'S family, LOL

    oxox,
    snotball

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  5. Bravo, great blog Sweet Annie!! that letter up above to Dr. Laura cracked me up!!! Bravo to him too!! I dont have answers for you my dear friend, I dont understand how people can hate, judge, condemn others, yet say theyre good Christians and finally, why the heck should anyone care who gets married to who???? mind your own damn business and worry about your own damn life...lmao...xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

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  6. I had 2 gay cousins, both died from AIDS. The one I was closest to was loved and cared for my his family until he died. The other was rejected by his mother who went as far as blaming her daughter for her brother's death. She refused to accept that he was gay and told the entire family he had "leukemia"....he died knowing she couldn't accept who he was.

    TJ and I will be married 35 years in Oct. I have a hard time figuring out exactly how extending marriage to gay couples would endanger MY marriage. Marriage is just a contract, what is the big deal?

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  7. LMAO, good point.

    With this woman, you weren't even allowed to use the "A" word around her. She vehemently refused to admit that Ryan was adopted. The woman isn't screwed down right tight. LOL

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  8. Some good points here. I, too, know some gay folks who have better relationships than straight people.

    (As to the religious-thing, I'm so sick of religion I could scream. The endless parsing of obscure and arcane 'scriptures' from one moldy book or another which is supposed to 'tell us how to live'.

    Remember this, people: Every child is born an atheist. The greatest gift we could give our children is to fail, utterly, to indoctrinate them with this nonsensical savagery.)

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  9. Amen! lol

    I just had to steal your Dr. Laura letter....too funny!

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  10. I find it amusing that someone will boycott television shows that display homosexuality but people are not allowed to boycott Target because they made a political donation they don't agree with *sigh*

    Here's my two cents, and although I don't agree that being a homosexual is a choice I do agree that acting on it "is" a choice. I dated men for years, I tried to fit into the "mold" society expected of me. I finally realized that I was never going to meet the person who would love me and who I could love. I accepted that there was something wrong with me and that I obviously did not deserve to be loved. That I was broken somehow. It was years later that I finally realized that I wasn't broken, I was just "different." Then I met "L" and for the 1st time in my life everything fell into place. Sure I choose to take a risk and act on my feelings for another woman. Sure I could have chosen not to, but I realized that an all loving God who mage me in his/her image would want me to be the best human being I could be. Someone who is kinder, happier, less selfish.... L helps me be all of those things. How could that possibly be a sin?

    Oh and if my marriage to L (yes we are married) if my marriage to L somehow distroys a heterosexual marriage then that marriage had issues to begin with.

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  11. Oh and you made me go read Peachie's page so I had to post a response there.

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  12. great entry cab! I made a choice not to click on the pages you mentioned Annie because I will not feed their insanity by being a number, until Multiply I didnt realize people care how many people click on their pages!! funny really, I always assumed I was just chatting to friends on here when I blog!

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  13. LOL - that hadn't occurred to me.

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  14. I put my 2 cents in at peachies as well. Jesus is love, it suprises me how many people get that wrong, or insist he loves only those who see it their way. Wishing people were a little more humble.

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  15. People pick and choose and they forget two important things. We were initially taught that we needed to live by the 10 commandments; I don't see one that says Homosexuality is a sin.

    Then when Jesus was asked which of the commandments was the most important he said "People of Israel, you have only one Lord and God. You must love him with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength."

    Which he followed up with the second most important commandment "Love others as much as you love yourself."

    It just turns out that the "other" I love is a woman. :D I think by Jesus' standard I'm doing ok

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  16. "Hypocrisy and distortion are passing currents under the name of religion” ~ Gandhi

    “Hypocrisy in anything whatever may deceive the cleverest and most penetrating man, but the least wide-awake of children recognizes it, and is revolted by it, however ingeniously it may be disguised” ~Tolstoy

    “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” ~Bierce


    What bothers me most about all this stuff is how those standing around casting stones take ONLY the part of the "gospel" that they CHOOSE to be relevant and disregard the rest. Didn't Jesus say "let he who is without sin cast the first stone?" Wasn't he clear in meaning that we are not to judge others because no one except god himself is without sin? In fact didn't he say at one point JUDGE NOT? I have read several version of the bible (as well as "other religious texts) and can't remember ANYWHERE where is says.... this is my word and your commandment, unless you think you know better....

    That said, I think that god doesn't really care so much about anything besides the state of your soul.

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  17. The state of your soul and chocolate chip cookies. God definately cares about chocolate chip cookies.

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  18. just another thought.... If "gay" is ruining marriage... then in the years since 1990 as "gay" became more "socially acceptable" to discuss why have divorce rates DROPPED.....? Shouldn't they BY the argument against "gay marriage" be getting higher as "gays spread their propaganda?"

    Average length of opposite sex marriages? 7 years.

    http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsUS.shtml

    http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html

    Versus an average length of 6 years for same sex partnerships?

    http://www.buddybuddy.com/survey.html

    Interesting to note that the two surveys ARE NOT equal. Why? Because the FIRST includes ONLY married couples and does NOT include cohabitating opposite sex partners. While the SECOND by definition includes ALL Cohabitating same sex partnerships.

    Look around and see how many opposite sex couples move in and out with each other. I bet it makes up for the ONE YEAR difference (if not more).

    That is to say that UNTIL ALL THINGS ARE EQUAL the two CAN NEVER be compared any more than any other two dissimilar things can be. I learned THAT in the most basic of science classes. You can compare some features of dissimiliar things but you can not make global statements about them as a WHOLE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT THE SAME! A good experiment take this into accounts and sets up a study such that as a whole the two items are compared fairly.


    This was interesting as well.....get your butts to school.

    http://www.democrats.us/editorial/gerard071705.shtml

    When all is said and done, we are all just people doing the best we can to get on with our lives. I don't believe that we CHOOSE who we love, we just do. Likewise, you can not force yourself to love someone you don't. According to ANY religion, god made all things. All creatures great and small. God doesn't make mistakes. I think that the greatest sin we can make is to treat others unkindly.

    Love your neighbors.

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  19. I love you.

    I am sorry that you had to struggle to find love but I think you appreciate it more because you did.

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  20. oh. and I can state for the record...your marriage had NOTHING to do with destroying my marriage... the fact that my husband was an abusive Mother f-er who almost killed me did....

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  21. Anna, I quite agree with your outlook on homosexuality. It is NOT something that they have chosen to change, it is just the way that they are! What they do behind their bedroom door is their business, none of ours! Love knows no boundaries, it is NOT conditional. I am not gay, but that doesn't mean that I would stop someone else from being gay or not like them because they were. Different strokes for different folks! No one should have to be ashamed of who or what they are. This is a good blog sweetie! I think you should run for President! :) It is way past time that we've elected a woman! I really wanted Hillary to win!

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  22. Hi All;
    I am here, but only for another short minute or two...
    I was posting a reply on Peachie's page because the momma person deletes my comments on her page. (Go figure).
    http://peachie2007.multiply.com/journal/item/453

    ...if you want to know what transpired there...

    I will be back, and I promise to reply to everyones comments here.

    You all ROCK!

    Love to you!

    XOXO
    Me

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  23. Had the woman had no suspicions, or was she most upset by the fact that her suspicions were confirmed? And if so, then it wasn't his admission that upset her...

    I have a feeling that Ryan will, at some point come around and want to know his father.
    That is the greater 'sin' you know- (not the dissolution of the marriage, but her reaction).

    Make sure Tim has a facebook page- or somewhere else that he can be found, by name.

    Were there problems between you and the aunt that he had to choose sides? (Yes, I know am nosy)! hehehe

    Oh, and I giggled out loud at you both drooling over the same men! hehehe
    You are priceless!

    XOXO
    Me

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  24. Sweet Pamela
    You are exactly correct!
    The apologists who write, with NO understanding of being in anothers shoes, are the biggest charlatans of all- And that is certainly not Christian- or any other faith~based acceptable.

    I do not understand the hate either- Know that I read plenty of it when reading other pages, links and comments- Too much.
    But hey, they are Christian! Hellfire and damnation if you don't take a knee and bend to their ways of thinking.

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    Why is it that I have no problem at all picturing you actually telling someone "mind your own damn business and worry about your own damn life" to their face?! hehehe

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  25. You are good.
    That is priceless!!!
    *files away for future reference*

    XOXO
    Me

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  26. I am sorry that your cousins died- and what an awful death by all accounts.
    My sympathies Sweetie.

    Has the other rejecting mother 'come around' yet, or is she still in her little world of denial? To be honest, I am thinking his was even a worse death, simply thinking that mama did not love him.

    I have gotten mad at my children for all sorts of things- (but hopefully never for anything that they weren't responsible for). Again, it goes back to the matter of choice.

    Congratulations on your marriage lasting so long- With the exception of my parents generation, I know of very few that have made it that long. Know that I am very happy for you!

    XOXO
    Me

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  27. My sister was like that. She didn't want ANYone to know she was adopted either!
    I was exactly the opposite- It always intrigued me for some reason. Sort of a bragging type of thing for me. And it sure opened lots of conversation too.

    "The woman isn't screwed down right tight."
    LOL is right Snotball. (I will just have to file that away to use that line also)! hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  28. Well thank you Will.
    I do not profess to know a darn thing more than I can surmise, and past what I personally feel, or have read. But it is good to have my words confirmed somehow.

    As to babies. I do not know if they are born atheist per se. But I am thinking they are just born void of any thought of religion.
    It is all a learning process from birth all the way to death. At least it is supposed to be-
    (And if it's not, it had better be)! hehehe.

    I too am tired of people screaming about religion, on both ends of the proverbial coin.
    Damned if ya do, damned if ya don't.
    That lady on the other blog is just even past fanaticism, -if that is possible?
    A converted barmaid.
    Well I tell ya, I would go back to bartending in a heartbeat if it meant I didn't have to be yelled at by Christians/others who claim their way is the only way.

    And 'history' is savage Will- From any point of religious view. Almost all of the worlds religions have shown us that they know how to kill, maim and torture.
    That aside (I know, it is hard), but many really are supposed to have found that magical peace, that Xanadu that we all would love to have.
    SCREAMING AT PEOPLE IS NOT BLISS AND PEACE THOUGH!
    hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  29. What the heck ever happened to "Thou shalt not steal" ?
    hehehe
    Have at it Sweetie!

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    I really enjoyed hearing your own thought process on your blog there.
    You are correct about that "glowing ink" too.

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  30. Sweet Cab;
    I am so happy that you have known the joy of having L in your life- of being that kinder, happier and less selfish person.
    And ditto on your words, "an all loving God who made me in their image would want me to be the best human being I could be"
    I remember how afraid you were- but you were only not trusting your own heart. And now you are so happy! That is what makes it all so worthwhile now, isn't it?!

    The TV? My thoughts are that I have learned much from any of those 'boycotted' TV shows. That woman had even named a few besides Ellen- (But notice how they ALL have sponsors)!
    Oh wait, do LGBT's drive cars, consume products etc? hehehe Her attitude would then need to be such that she would not buy any of the products advertised either. She not only has an empty heart, but an empty home and garage to properly reflect what is on the inside.

    And she would do herself a great deed by watching "Brothers and Sisters" too. Just to realize that people are people, no matter who they kiss. That is only ONE aspect of anyones life.
    Good grief!

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    Poor Peachie- And she'd only stated her 'opinion' of not caring to boycott. hehehe

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  31. I am chuckling at me 'making' you go- hehehe
    I saw your reply. You are correct in stating it makes America great!

    XOXO
    Me

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  32. Sweet Pamela
    You came back! (Cool that)!
    I put the link up there so more people may possibly know what that woman was saying- Not for the page counts, and certainly not to harm Peachie. Like I said to Cab, Peach only put it there stating her own point of view, NOT DEMANDING that every person accede to her thoughts.
    Peachie's blog was fine, up until that other lady added her 2 cents worth and started yelling. In her blog, Peachie was upset that people were trying to tell everyone how to act/think/ect.
    (Which, oddly enough is what MY blog above was/IS about).
    ?
    ?
    ?
    Hmm...
    Am I trying to tell everyone how to think, act etc? Probably. But only on a much kinder wavelength than what I see around me.
    Or so I feel.
    Does that make sense? (It does to me).

    Page counts? Does make ya wonder though-

    I talk to friends on here also. Some much closer than others- Some just have to get to know yet.

    And I have found many friends and wonderful people, and adventures; throughout my years of blogging too. I wouldn't want it any other way.

    XOXO
    Me

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  33. Sweet Stanger;
    i am happy you went there too! And are so correct to 'let he who is without sin'...
    (But then there just HAS to be varying degrees of sin, doesn't there)?
    Maybe it's too early in the AM for me to be thinking right now...

    Humility is just one of the things that elude us all at times.
    Sometimes the harder you try, the more elusive it gets...

    XOXO
    Me

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  34. Am thinking THAT might depend on whether your neighbor is homosexual, and whether or not you are coveting him/her.
    hehehe

    Sorry- Just had to throw that in...


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  35. By [almost] anyone's standards you are doing just fine.
    And yes Cab, Jesus probably rightfully agrees!

    You have quoted the Golden Rule! Ain't it the truth?!

    XOXO
    Me

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  36. Sweet Pea;
    First, your summation is perfect. So apt. So correct.

    You are also right to be bothered by the "pick and choose" mentality. But I do think that the writer of the Dr. Laura letter put that all in its tidy corner too.

    And yet, haven't "I" judged within my own blog?
    I have done just that by being appalled by that woman who SCREAMS! (Again then, to question the greater sin, --- or might I reflect back to your last sentence once more)?

    Need caffeine.

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    As always, I love your quotes!

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  37. You are most wise.
    No wonder I love you so much!

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  38. LMAO - now THAT would be a sin

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  39. Sweet Suzy;
    I don't think our sexuality is anything TO be chosen in the first place.
    Where you and I have never given it a second thought, my heart breaks for those who had to grow up with such pain and prejudice- such conflict within their own selves. It wasn't that too long ago that even science and psychiatry 'believed' that there was something inherently wrong with anyone who wasn't straight.
    And my god, they even tried to "FIX" it! (Which, oddly enough, even the homosexual animals in the study rejected)!

    From the link in my PS:
    "The American medical association, The American psychiatric association, The American psychological association, The American psychoanalytic association, The American academy of pediatrics, and the National association of social workers have all stated that homosexuality should not be treated as a mental disorder and that they oppose attempts at conversion therapy and that sexual orientation is not a choice and cannot be changed.

    If you still believe that its a choice and believe that all these therapists and doctors that have done studies on it are wrong, then you simply have some issues."

    No way no how would I ever run for ANY public office. Can't you just see me; anxiety attacked, and with a full blown migraine, throwing up on everyones shoes?! HAHAHA
    But I thank you for the vote of confidence!

    XOXO
    Me


    PS
    Read the article, then the comments
    http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=28531
    Allan Schwartz, Ph.D. dransphd@aol.com
    Being Gay: A Life Style Choice?
    Allan Schwartz, LCSW, Ph.D. Updated: Aug 16th 2006
    "As a result of everything I have read, learned and experienced as a mental health worker, I long ago concluded that homosexuality is not a matter of choice. Instead, it seems quite clear to me that there is a combination of genetic and biological factors that cause people to become gay.

    Choice and willfulness have nothing to do with who does and does not become homosexual.

    Those who are gay have no more choice over their sexual preferences than those who are heterosexual."

    The major problem with subscribing to the notion that these things are matters of choice is that it becomes a handy way to blame..."

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  40. Nosy again...
    Was he in a state that needs a reason for divorce? I know some states have to have a reason, with irrefutable proof.

    Wisconsin is a "no fault" state- In that if you want a divorce for any reason you can have one. See, (I never had to PROVE that I didn't like the way my husband smelled). hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  41. Sweet Zus-
    Remember too that not so long ago even cancer was thought to be contagious...

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  42. Well if that ain't the pot calling the kettle black. You should take your own words to heart because you and many others like you seem to think the only true and right way of thinking and opinions are yours and all others are stupid and ignorant. Heaven forbid someone should think differently than you do. Everyone has their own opinions and beliefs and just because some of us think and have different opinions than you do does NOT make them any less Christian or hateful. Beliefs are beliefs. Maybe YOU are in the wrong in YOUR way of thinking. Marriage is between a man and a woman...period.

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  43. like I said hun, I quite agree with you!

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  44. Anna, I agree with what Suzy has written here

    "It is NOT something that they have chosen to change, it is just the way that they are! What they do behind their bedroom door is their business, none of ours! Love knows no boundaries, it is NOT conditional. I am not gay, but that doesn't mean that I would stop someone else from being gay or not like them because they were. No one should have to be ashamed of who or what they are"

    I do have many Homosexual Friends whom I see on a regular basis, mainly lesbians;
    Here in Oz people are just seen and accepted for who they are, as a person living within society: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sydney_Gay_and_Lesbian_Mardi_Gras
    ( Sorry Anna pls forgive me )
    I think I read above some where; "Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone" well I myself have no stones to throw;
    I am a person who just loves people because they are in fact people.
    I feel for ghostbear1890 very much :-(
    I have been married for 25 yrs next month and not a hand raised because of love for Julie, I can not understand why some men ( Cowards ) do

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  45. Hey Lester, congrats on the upcoming 25 year anniversary! woohoo! :)

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  46. Bring it Baby!

    Sweet (and dare I add "bitter") Map; Your comments always bring to mind the old saying,
    "Make it idiot-proof and someone will make a better idiot." 

    I cannot believe you raised children with your narrow little mind!

    Ah- but never mind that.
    I have already addressed my own concerns over this all by commenting to my little Sweet Pea, so I must repeat myself.
    ( Guess you chose just to overlook these, huh?)
    quote, "And yet, haven't "I" judged within my own blog?I have done just that by being appalled by that woman who SCREAMS! (Again then, to question the greater sin, --- or might I reflect back to your last sentence once more)?"

    I also stated, within my blog, "I have done much learning, but there are things I still do not understand."
    end quotes

    One of the things I clearly do not understand are all the people that reek of hatred. (Maybe you will explain that hatred to me)?

    Seeing as you were already admonished, quite well, on my Texas link by these words, (among others) "If you've ever bothered to read a bible, rather than have it fed to you by Rush, you may have noticed that..." I won't waste my time trying to teach you how to learn anything.

    I ask you, good old boy Rush has been married how many times?  That does back up a whole lot of misinformation by heterosexuals, and homophobes, seemingly like yourself. Doesn't it?

    You also stated, "Marriage is between a man and a woman...period."
    That is your opinion, Map. I can only hope that our courts have a bigger and more all-encompassing heart than you seem to.

    FYI, there is a difference between "opinions" and "beliefs" for the gods sake!
    (Please return to 4th grade language class, and study it a while).
    Marriage is marriage is marriage is marria

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  47. ...but I think I still wanna throw up on a few shoes!

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  48. LOL that would be funny! and those whose shoes got thrown up on just might deserve that too! :D

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  49. Mr. Lester-
    Yes, Suzy is quite a smart young lady! (I like that about all my friends).

    You said, "No one should have to be ashamed of who or what they are"
    That is perfect Lester. Well said. You are so right that I could kiss you!

    I have no stones to throw either. And most people will never fit into any 'category' of someone elses choosing anyway, so why would anyone stoop so low as to even think there is a rock to throw in the first place? That is nonsense.

    I too have much sympathy for ghost bear, aka Donna; and for what her family has lost.

    Congratulations on your upcoming silver anniversary too!
    (Remember, diamonds Lester, beautiful diamonds, even though it says "silver"). hehehe

    Sweet Pea and myself, among way too many others, have known that 'til death us do part' is misinterpreted by our husbands. It is sad, but we do not ever make that mistake again either.

    You are a good and decent man.

    XOXO
    Me

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  50. hehehe

    I get this baaaaaaad taste in the back of my throat, that emanates from the very depths of my soul sometimes.
    Though I am never responsible for it being there in the first place.
    Go figure.


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  51. Now as I wrote to Stanger on that Texas link,

    For the most part, my entries have been “civilogues” ("for the most part being the key words) hehehe
    ... to borrow the term coined by PD's (Politics Daily), Jeffrey Weiss) –

    I like that about you all.

    XOXO
    Me

    Must fly for now.
    I have pictures now to upload... And a mountain of dishes that are wanting their bath.
    Have a "wunnaful" day!

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  52. you have a wunnaful day too my dear! {{hugs}}

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  53. We think that what upset her the most was that he left her for a man and it was an "insult" to her womanhood. LOL

    I hope Ryan does look his Father up. They were inseparable. Considering they shared no blood, he looked JUST like Tim. I agree that her keeping Ryan from Tim was the greater "sin".

    Tim already has a facebook page and we stay in contact there. Much easier than trying to catch him on the phone.

    It wasn't an Aunt, it was Tim's mother, my step-monster. She was VERY abusive to my father's children. He stood between his own mother and her raised fist to defend me. That's a Brother.

    I thought that "drooling" would tickle your fancy. LOL

    oxox,
    snotball

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  54. I think to an extent we ALL judge. We filter everything through our own moral filter and decide if we think it is right or wrong.

    I think it becomes a "bad thing" when we use that thought process to inflict hurt on others or to force others to our will. I am not sure. i can't see how we could determine right and wrong without judging yet we are not supposed to judge, so I rather look at the context of the "rule" and in the larger picture, he was saying not to hurt the woman with their judgement.

    And yes, i think the whole context OF this discussion is judging and therefore IS sort of wrong which leads back to MY first rule of religion...first do no harm. So i guess as long as we discussing the issue on its merits and NOT using the discussion or its results to harm anyone......

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  55. thank you. i am educated not wise.

    I love you too.


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  56. it isn't? Funny I thought it must be the way everyone runs away when you say the word.

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  57. I don't believe I have ever heard anyone here say that people were going to burn in hell for their way of thinking.

    I think if you look carefully you will find that most people here are saying more that people have a RIGHT to think how they do but not to force their opinion on others.

    I think I speak for the crowd when I say we all think you have a right to believe that marriage is between a man and woman but that you still don't have the right to force ME to believe that.

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  58. *snort*

    *wipes coffee off screen*

    dangitallanyway is THAT what we been doing wrong?

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  59. I don't have to brag as you so aptly put it but now that YOU brought it up, I DO work very hard at what I do and normally I WOULD be at work by six....but beings we didn't have to be there til our NORMAL start time today, well, point made. For the first time in a year and a half, we are working our normal hours...FOR NOW but that will soon end. Now, beings you do NOT work, I guess that means the only reason you were up at that hour is to be hateful. I'm not the one that is closed minded....and for your information, I despise Rush,. So put that in your arrogant Democratic pipe and smoke it. Talk about narrow minded and brainwashed....

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  60. And you do NOT have the right to force me to believe that same sex marriage it ok....

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  61. no one said I was... read my reply again.

    Now I think you are just looking for a fight. I specifically SAID that you have the right to your opinion.


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  62. Thank you!
    I must have taken this to heart because I had a FREAKIN' wunnaful day!
    hehehe

    XOXO
    me

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  63. Thank you!
    I must have taken this to heart because I had a FREAKIN' wunnaful day!
    hehehe

    XOXO
    me

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  64. Methinks she is a selfish you know what.
    And it's not an insult to her "womanhood" He fell in love with someone else.
    Contrary to cheaters who just go elsewhere in search of sex.
    (And yes, that behavior is a dime a dozen, either homo or hetero).

    The way I see it is that he grew up and left her far behind...

    Forgive me, but I giggled at your "step-monster"-
    I am sorry though that you had to grow up that way.

    And yes, I still am smiling about all that drooling!

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  65. Who knew?! (Hell, I thought that made you go blond)?
    hehehe


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  66. Sweet Pea;
    I knew you would get back here...
    You are correct of course, and the judging is opinion. If it can be that.
    And opinions come with emotion from our own collective conscience.
    That's just being human.
    However, when one adds the definition of 'humane' to that, it becomes entirely necessary not to hurt anyone. (Key word being ANYone). You. Me. And the lady/man with the wart on their nose. (You know, the kind of 'flaw' that one can visually see).
    There are too many inner flaws that do not ever manifest outside of the body, or in places we can see.
    There are no magical "marks" (to pull a pov from the apocalypse, neither demonic nor angelic).

    it is all what emanates from us, and we can then CHOOSE what to show the world, be it hatred, or love. And for me, that goes back to the definition of a "whited sepulchre" . I CHOOSE not to be that person, and I TRY to live up to that.

    And yes, I do try to look at the larger picture. There are more people in this world than I.

    XOXO
    Me

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  67. You are both, Pea, even if you do live in California. hehehe
    (Explanation to follow)...

    XOXO
    Me


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  68. And those cruel actions are exactly why CaringBridge is such an awesome site.

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  69. nice.

    Consider yourself enlightened, now you know!
    hehehe

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  70. Just a clarification for you. The difference being that I do not get paid for all the work I do.

    *Inhales deeply* Man, I thought I had a peace pipe. Now I know better.
    Thank you.

    XOXO
    Me

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  71. My choice of words was bad. My apologies.

    Whine. Complain. Either would be more accurate.
    Instead of being thankful FOR a job, especially when so many are out of work? Well pick your verb.

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  72. No one is forcing anything on you, least of all DeeAnne's soul! For Heavens sake, I have never read anything so laughable in my whole life.

    Once again, please please get over yourself.

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  73. Now an 'explanation' for Sweet Pea, who lives in SoCal...

    Stolen from Momma's blog about Homosexualtiy...
    A reply to one of her friends:
    "And Beverly just because the majority wins do you consider it to be SO? Look at the numbers of what lives in California, "homosexuals", that is why ! and also they sure aren't Christians as well, the world don't want Jesus they want pleasure at what cost?"

    What's with the "what" that lives in California?
    I would ask her but she keeps deleting my questions and comments. (And I didn't even get ugly)!
    So there ya have it.

    Now which "what" are you? (I will need a noun, maybe even a proper noun, in your reply).
    hehehe

    Love to you too

    XOXO
    Me

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  74. And for everyone. I do have a question for ya.
    Just what the hey is "smite" anyway?

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  75. Uh-Oh
    I see Casey is on tonight.
    Now we are ALL in trouble...
    hehehe

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  76. I call BULLSHIT bitch.... YOU have looked down on both Mom and I and told us many times that we are "lazy" and should "get off our asses and find a job..." So yes, it IS YOU who gloats in our face and brags about working "so hard"... Maybe if you put that much effort into caring about others, you might actually amount to a human being... Maybe even have a heart that isn't cased in ice... WAKE UP!!!

    Obviously you can't even remember the words YOU HAVE SPOKEN AS OPINION! WOW! Exactly how much do you drink that you can't even remember your own actions?? OR, more likely, were they just all lies to begin with???

    Mom isn't hateful... It is the poison that spews from YOUR mouth that is hate... You hate gays, you hate Mom, you hate me, you hate any unemployed person, you hate Democrats (AND THE LIST GOES ON...) When is it going to dawn on you that you are NOT the only person on this Earth, and the more you hate, the more you'll be alone...

    You're heterosexual, so therefore your "man and woman" marriage should've been perfect (in your words), right?? Oh wait, it was probably the evil and poisonous HATE coming from you that drove him off....

    Guess what? You don't like it on here, then GTFO! NOW!

    Really, we've ALL had enough of your ignorant and hateful CRAP.... Leave us alone, get a life, and get out.... Get over yourself already... Unless you haven't noticed, you are NOT God, so you canNOT say what He or She deems is right... You make me ill, and I pray for those around you that they might find love from someone who is not as hateful as you have shown yourself to be...

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  77. Sorry Mommy,

    You have written a wonderful blog here, and I've said it before, but I'll say it again... Love knows NOT gender, race, etc.... Love knows the soul, and in this you are absolutely right!

    Sorry to have these words on your blog but the woman has disrespected both you and me so many times she doesn't deserve to turn her crap-tastic statements back on us... Not my fault that for some reason she can't remember saying the words she said....

    Hate makes my blood boil. I might not have told a lot of people, but I'm an empath. I feel others' feelings. In that same gift, I can sense souls whether they are good or bad. Goodness fills me with a sort of warm and fuzzy feeling when I come across it, it makes me comfortable. Evil, on the other hand, can make me very ill if it's radiating strong enough... Doubtfire radiates hate, evil, and intolerance... In other words, they make me throw up a little... I don't know why she keeps coming back after she's made it clear that she hates us and everything we stand for... I think "Flying Leap" comes to mind when I think of her, just sorry it spilled over on here....

    You are a loving, caring and compassionate human being, and don't ever let someone as insignificant as Pam get to you... I know she never has gotten to you, but I don't know how you do it... How you keep your mind from going off on her???

    Your words are so true on here... I really don't get why anyone hates anyone else, but I guess it's just an "I'm better than you" way of thinking that so many people have....

    They quote the Bible here, there, everywhere, but seem to only include those parts that are convenient for them... NOT ONCE do they acknowledge that is was both WRITTEN AND EDITED by none other than HUMANS!!!!! Not God.... Books were completely thrown out and some were embellished...

    Personally, I think God is all-loving and all-forgiving.... NOT wrathful... You can't have it both ways people...

    I love you Mom! MUCH MUCH!
    ~Casey

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  78. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


    OMG is she serious????

    No freaking clue. amazing to think that people believe this crap. California ranks up there with the rest of the world with some where between 1/2 to 1 percent being gay. I wish there were a place where the gay community was the majority, the world would be a much nicer place.

    the what I am is human

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  79. Casey is on a roll, she texted me, this is why I am on.

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  80. Down girl!!!!

    She is allowed to spew her hate. We just need to counter it by showing her kindness.


    XOXOXOOX

    Love you sis.

    So glad that you stick by your guns.

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  81. all the more reason to just ignore people like her. she is not worth the air you put into your response...

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  82. I do NOT hate anyone or anything. You all hate MY opinions and beliefs. All I see here is the "lemmig effect". What one says or does, the rest follows and when someone speaks their mind differently, well, heaven forbid. As the saying goes, don't like my opinion, put on your big girl panties and deal with it.I was taught to speak my mind. Don't like oh well. The only reason I even came to read all this crap was because I was told in a PM to check it out as I was being bad mouthed by the head lemming. Now if you'll all excuse me, I must get ready to go to work so as to keep those that don't in the lifestyle to which they are accustom.

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  83. Sweet Bobo;
    The hatred should make anyone (with a fair sense of spirit) cringe.
    But I will let Mrs. Doubtfire respond to you. (Fire with fire).

    You are nothing, if not passionate!

    I love you.

    XOXO
    Me

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  84. No apologies necessary.
    You have quite clearly stated your opinion about our sad Map.

    Thank you too for the compliment.
    I believe this blog alone shows that the world is not against legalizing gay marriage, or putting down homosexuals.

    Do I write with butterflies and bright skies, and fluffy puppies? It is not my nature to do so.
    I write, I verify what I have read, and I add in my own comments, opinions and feelings as I go along. (I thought that's what blogging etc. was all about).

    XOXO
    Me

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  85. Your gift is that of Empath- I might have recognized that even while I carried you but didn't know the term for it. The 'how' I would feel during those months whenever there was crisis or arguments...

    People have never had to worry with you around them. You just don't inspire an ill effect. It is not in your heart, your soul or your being.
    Sweet Pea is much like you are with that. Perhaps that is why we all are so very close.

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  86. Perhaps you will have to go back and reread.
    I HAVE gone off on her -- lots of times.

    Think of three words that can be made out of 'evil'.

    1. People always forget the most obvious one, it is "EVIL" itself. (speaks for itself too).

    2. VILE. click. Loathsome; disgusting:
    b. Unpleasant or objectionable: vile weather. (See Synonyms at offensive).
    c. Contemptibly low in worth or account; second-rate. Of mean or low condition.
    d. Miserably poor and degrading; wretched:

    And 3. LIE. as a noun and a verb.
    1. A false statement deliberately presented as being true; a falsehood.
    2. Something meant to deceive or give a wrong impression.

    from here
    lie1n lie [lai]a false statement made with the intention of deceiving "It would be a lie to say I knew, because I didn't."

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  87. Want me to quote what I saw in MY bible?
    It said, "Thou shalt not bear false witness"
    That to me means you won't be telling lies.

    (Hows that for 'convenient')?

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  88. FYI:

    The ancient Jews from 300 BC began the exclusion of ancient manuscripts.
    They invented the word "heresy" and from the time of the Macabean movement all the books outside the five books of Moses were banned from synagogues.

    The Christian Old Testament came in 73 BC when a council of 84 Priests had to travel to the great Library of Alexandria in Egypt to retrieve copies from the 740,000 scrolls that were there before the great fire in 63 BC.
    Amazingly the Old Testament was located in Palestine at the time.

    They had to travel to get copies of the Old Testament because of the ban on the rest of history. However, that delegation left the majority of Jewish and Christian history on the table at that time.
    That is why the Bible refers to some 84 ancient books that are not included in the Bible. The Christians largely came from the population of Jews who already were accustomed to banning books. There were more fragmented Christian Churches after the crucifixion than there are today. Each little town had their own collection of writings and traditions. The reason for the Nicene Council was to stop the warring factions on the church and vote of the most popular of the documents found among the local churches. Books that were left out include but are not limited to... click to read more.

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  89. I love you too.
    Forevermorelonger.

    XOXO
    Mama D.

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  90. A 'snort' AND an 'erk' --- within one little blog?
    You are on a roll Pea.
    hehehe

    XOXO
    me

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  91. She was serious.

    Mama always said "it takes all kinds" when she explained about people.
    Now I learn where even her little smirk came from, as she would explain...

    XOXO
    Me


    Happy you are human... too.

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  92. She was simply dumbfounded last night, eh?

    You rock!

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  93. As you well know, it takes a LOT to p*ss Casey off. But once she's there, look out.

    Mama also said, "Kill 'em with kindness" (I have done that so much in my life that I am running out).

    Glad you came on to remind me...

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  94. First of all, I need to give you a little reminder.
    (Methinks I must remind you as you seem to have forgotten that I have a mind like a steel trap).

    quoted comments begin:

    flintville wrote on Dec 20:
    "By the way, I am not sitting Sweet Doubtfire.
    If you would come around except when you are told to (which I get a huge kick out of), then you would already know this."

    doubtfire42301 wrote on Dec 20:
    "Hate to tell ya this but I don't get told to "come around". The only time I mosy around mulitply is on SUNDAY because I work for a living. Between working ten and twelve hour days, getting ready for christmas, getting Cee through finals at school... ...I have better things to do than SIT at the computer all the damn time spreading around B.S."


    flintville wrote on Dec 20
    "Um, yeah you do."
    "Be that as it may, the rest of your explanation shows your paranoia with the matter at hand, wouldn't you agree?
    And there ya are, worried about Christmas, when you could be actually spending your time reading that which you are whining about."

    PS hehehe
    As far as doing better things with your time, then why not do just that?!?"
    end quoted comments

    ROTFLMAO!


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  95. Map;
    You really ARE welcome to your own opinions, no matter how archaic or hateful they are.
    And as you said, I am welcome to deal with it.
    Accordingly, and with your permissions and blessings, I have dealt with your beliefs.


    What is it that you don't like?

    I too, was taught to speak my mind. But my own parents ALSO taught me kindness.
    "Do unto..."
    "Respect all life..."
    "Love thy neighbor..."

    You know? All the things that you seem ot be opposed to.

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  96. What's a "lemmig" anyway? Do you hab a code?

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  97. There ya have it. You ARE kind!

    But I will explain a bit to you too.
    If you are an American, with a social security number and everything... you can look on your paycheck...
    You will see a deduction for your social security withholding. (It is a percentage that goes into your retirement, and based on your gross pay).
    It is abbreviated "FICA".

    I am an American.
    I have a ss number.
    For many many years I worked upwards of 80+ hours a week (be glad you are not management material), this FICA came out of my checks.
    That is what I collect, thank you for asking. (And not to worry, I paid enough in to not have to draw any additional federal monies).
    Casey is collecting on both her FICA, hers and her fathers' FICA combined, because she was struck ill before her 23rd birthday.

    As if!

    You have too much time to think.

    XOXO
    Me

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  98. Still paranoid too I see...
    hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  99. Hi Mommy,

    I absolutely LOVE the letter you've included in this blog! This is the example of how people will gladly quote their Bible when it's convenient for them... This man/woman who wrote the letter is just showing that there are other parts to the same Bible which these people will disregard... "Times have changed..." "We know better..." being their main excuses... So how about times changing and making us know BETTER than to hate homosexuals??? I guess they don't find the irony in that...

    On Peachie's site, someone said that homosexuals are evil because they cannot "go forth and multiply" and are unable to procreate.... So does that mean that those humans who are born sterile, or have cancer in their reproductive organs and had to have them removed, or in any other way are unable to have children, are also EVIL??? I think not...

    In saying that homosexuality is wrong, they are saying that God made a mistake when creating their physical bodies as well as their souls. Some people show these tendencies LONG before they even know what "sex" is all about... It has been scientifically proven that some homosexual brains are actually structured and work the same as a member of the opposite sex... They start showing signs of this at three years old, five years old, etc... They can't possibly be "choosing" anything about sex at that age, so then God made a mistake??? I think not... God is the only entity that is 100% right all the time. He/She never makes mistakes... Only us humans do, and no human is exempt from making said mistakes. The point is to learn from them...

    We all are imperfect. We all have things that are wrong about us and things that are right about us. That will not change, and we will continue to make mistakes. But the worst thing one human can do to another is be unaccepting, to deny that person kindness because they are flawed, to hate their imperfections... Why do we do this??? Why can't those hateful ones look inside themselves and find LOVE for everyone, NOT HATE??? There are moments when I forget this, and let loose... I will never forget that I have my own flaws, though, and try to accept and love as many people as I can...

    For I believe that our God is an all-loving all-accepting and all-forgiving entity. That as long as we believe in a higher power, we are saved... I believe that God loves every one of His and Her children in an equal manner. There will be no judgement passed down on us except from our own selves when we leave this earth. We are then given the opportunity to "review" this life in its entirety and the only criticism we will hear will be coming from us. We can then choose to reincarnate and learn more, or we can spend our eternity on the Other Side in sheer peace and harmony... This is what I believe, for you cannot have a God that is both all-loving and hateful at the same time... Those are contradictions, and God is anything BUT a contradiction....

    I love you MUCH MUCH!
    ~Casey

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  100. Las time I am going to respond to you unless you make it clear that you have READ and UNDERSTAND what I am saying. You are so convinced that we are lemmings that you don't even listen to what anyone says.. Anne might be my mom but that does not mean we agree on everything and in fact disagree on a lot but the difference is respect.

    It is a lack of respect that has EVERYONE upset with you. You come here and demand the right to think how you want but in the same breath demand that we must think like you or we are wrong. You can not have it both ways. If you don't want opinions forced on you then you can not inflict YOURS on us.

    You are welcome to speak your mind. If you notice below I disagreed with a key point and spoke my mind. No one jumped all over me because I spoke my mind with RESPECT. This is what you DON'T get. You come along and shout and demand and fail to show any respect and expect that you will get it in return. You get what you give.

    Take for instance your parting shot below. I highlighted it so you can find it easily. You think that is respectful? Do you KNOW what Casey would give to have a good job right now? Do you know? Do you have a clue? No, clearly you don't. Anne as well. Do you think she enjoys the struggle she goes through? Do you think that if she could have a job that would give her security, a better lifestyle, as well as many other things that she would not leap on it? Why do you suppose she works her tush off on the "rummage sale?" Instead you leave with a hateful remark like that.

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  101. So then....


    What do YOU think about what you say about your judging?

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  102. Still amazed that she thinks the majority of California is gay.

    On a plus side, I never have to worry about running into her because we all know how catching "gay" is....

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  103. You are welcome.

    I think at times we ALL want to B%^# slap someone... maturity is remembering to step back and not give into that urge.

    It is really hard to remember this when you feel attacked and you have a finely tuned survival instinct....not that I am naming any names here CASEYANNE.

    I think in a way you have to understand where they are coming from then try to address THAT and tune out their actual words.


    Sheesh I sound like my grandfather.

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  104. Too busy working to keep you in the lap of luxury to get up and look up the word...

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  105. Woooo, I'm shaking in my boots right now with all the hatefilled comments directed at me...NOT!

    I DID come here on the suggestion by someone whether you want to believe it or not. Normally I would not do so but when I hear someone is badmouthing me for my opinions AGAIN, then yeah, I'm going to check it out.

    At least I did find out one thing...ya'll not as smart as ya think you are beings ya'll don't know what a lemming is.

    I will bow down to the Goddesses of the North and leave ya'll to polish your brass pedestals ya'll sit on looking down on those that don't think the same way you do.

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  106. we all know what a lemming is... if you notice, you spelled it wrong. you were being questioned as to what a lemmig was.

    Once again, clearly you don't bother to read preferring to simply immediately leap to conclusions.

    Sorry, I tried to speak rationally with you but it is clearly not worth the effort.

    And also, I am from the south. Oh, and I have a masters degree and five bachelor degrees in science.

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  107. I just didn't want to be going that low...
    I guess I was looking for some kind of absolution, if you will, for not being that person.

    XOXO
    Me

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  108. What a good point!
    You are right. It is all or nothing-
    And one canNOT have it both ways.

    XOXO
    Me

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  109. Well said... once again, Sweetie!

    XOXO
    Me

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  110. Ditto.
    You are so kind.

    I love you too.
    ForeverMORElonger.

    XOXO
    Me

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  111. I don't think she ever mentioned the 'majority' Pea. hehehe
    And I would have to scroll all the way up to verify that...
    Too lazy.
    Too late.

    Take your pick.

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    And in that statement, I was referring to what my own mom would say. (Not the momma freak in the link).

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  112. ROTF

    I am trying...
    (Really, I am).

    XOXO
    Me

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  113. Well damn it anyway...
    Which is it, -do you get told, or do you not?
    Now that you have ascribed to both of those things I am really "corNf00zed".
    hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  114. Thank you.
    But I ran out of polish. Do you suppose I could use spit? Just this once?

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  115. Once again, I see you have no pride and cannot even reply to Casey's note to you.
    You never do.
    How gutless you are.

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  116. reading it again she simply says 'majority'

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  117. Don't know what the rules are in FL. I think they were in FL when they got divorced. He lives in Miami now and she lived in Atlanta the last I knew. "Borrowed" church funds so she could have a big fancy wedding when she remarried. The very wealthy man she married refused to foot the bill for what she wanted.

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  118. Wow. Now you're just being hateful for the sake of being hateful. Why is it that the people who yell the loudest about people's right to free speech are the first people to tell everybody else to shut up?!

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  119. Pettiness does not look good on you... Or anybody for that matter. Let's use our education and intelligence, if we can get beyond our bitterness and hate.

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  120. I believe I did....****pretends to quake in my shoes.....****

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  121. See how lazy I am?
    hehehe

    Thank you Pea!

    XOXO
    Me

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  122. Sweet Snotball-
    What'd'ya mean she "borrowed" church funds?
    She stole that money???
    (But I am still laughing at the fact the man wouldn't pay for it all)!

    XOXO
    me

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  123. Great question Stanger-
    But you won't get a reply...

    XOXO
    Me

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  124. That is all it would take.
    Lo, that we raise our children not to have/know/feel any prejudice, right?

    XOXO
    Me

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  125. I saw no reply to Casey.
    (And that isn't "quake" I smelled in your shoes).

    XOXO
    Me

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  126. HA!!! YOU ARE SO WRONG, FLINTY!!!

    I have not once told ANYONE TO SHUT UP!!! In my opinion, it is I that have been told to shut up time and time again because MY opinion doesn't jive with everyone elses. There are people on my page that do not agree with alot of my opinions BUT we discuss, agree to disagree and move on...unlike what goes on here. We do NOT attack each other because of our differing opinions.

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  127. Why on Earth do you have Stangers comment highlighted, and yet you call her Flinty?
    Goodness knows I can't keep up with one blog on here, never mind two.
    Guess you would get the two of us 'cornf00zed' because we are both highly intellgent human beings.
    Go figure.

    But I will address the lie above.
    First of all, "Yeah, right"

    Funny when you and I disagreed ON YOUR BLOG, I got blocked from your site.
    Need proof then- here is the blog in question.
    http://doubtfire42301.multiply.com/journal/item/829
    Go figure.
    Notice how you can still get to mine? That means you are not blocked from anything here.
    So... That might beg the question as to who has the ability to move on, and who does not.

    Again, I have proof. You have nothing.
    hehehe
    (Now go clean the sh*t out of those shoes).

    XOXO
    Me

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  128. Now who is being stupid here? Are you so zoned out on your meds that you are unable to understand that I was addressing two people in the same comment? I don't make a habit of highlighting certain parts of someone's comment piece by piece just to run up the comment count like you do.

    It's also obvious that you are NOT blocked from seeing things on my page. No one has the right to dictate how someone should or should not use their settings. Obviously you took the time to go back and find that particular blog which by the way you did point out was set to friends of friends. I hardly ever post anything completely for everyone like you do. The entire web does not need to know my business. Plus by doing just what you have done by going back and finding anything and everything that you can see on my page, it's obvious you spend way to much time online. Myself, I don't have that kind of time....

    Oh and BTW thanks for worrying about my shoes but there's nothing on my shoes....and I say that sarcastically by the way...the only time shoes go on these feet is to go to work and run errands. the rest of the time, it's barefeet for me...but thanks for worrying about it. lol

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  129. Not only do I hear a lot of hatred, but sadly enough, I hear a lot of jealousy. Guess that's the way of your kind.

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  130. Bless your heart... The point was that YOU have the power to dictate how you use your settings, and "Flinty" took the higher road, and decided to continue to let you voice your opinion regaurdless of how she disagreed with you. I'm glad she did because the rest of us get to watch you show your ass in a public forum.

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  131. No that was not the point....she said that I BLOCKED HER FROM VIEWING MY PAGE WHICH IS A LIE....Yeah, I can yell too....Thing is I'm allowed to voice my opinion but unless it agrees with everyone else, I'm in the wrong.,,,NOT!

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  132. Wow Doubty, that was a quick response!! You obviously DO have a hole bunch of time to do things! Thanks for prooving my point.

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  133. You are always allowed to voice your opinion.
    You are just to paranoid- or cluckie about that...


    I am lying about not seeing your blog?



    How's THAT for proof?

    If you have learned nothing about me, know this...
    ... I am many things. Call me what you want.

    Anything.

    But I am NOT a liar!



    Got it?

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    I will be right back with the rest of my reply to you.

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  134. Dearest Pam/Map;
    First of all, it is hilarious that you call me stupid. (And yes, I did laugh out loud)!

    You and those "Sarcastic Shoes"?
    This all reminds me of what Mama used to say to us kids when we were very very young. It is a famous quote to "never have battle of wits with an unarmed person"
    hehehe
    I forget who said it. Somebody smart though.

    But I can force myself to reply anyway-

    Heads up Pam/Map!  This will be on an 8 year old level...And this time please pay attention.  Not only to me, but to what YOU write also.

    You stated, "****pretends to quake in my shoes.....****"
    You are the one who claimed to have shoes on!  Or did I miss something?!
    (I only replied that I had smelled something 'other than quake')...   hehehe  I still do.

    Drugs?
    WTF are you talking about?
    (WTF means "what the fuck" by the way).
    Please send some good ones.  Just NOT the ones that make a body truly st00pid, OK?
    I highlight whatever I freakin' feel like highlighting. ("MY" blog, remember)?
    I obviously don't need 'e, when I can be ever so entertained by you.........  Kind of a dumb point you brought up there anyway.
    (sigh)
    (SIGH)  <------  {that's a big sigh by the way}


    I asked you to write back to Casey.
    You "claimed" you did, but I still can't see that reply.

    If you are speaking of this, quote "<span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-style:

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  135. Gotta run for now kids- Try to fight nice.
    hehehe

    XOXO
    Me

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  136. I HAVE CHECKED MY BLOCKED LIST AND YOU ARE NOT ON IT!!!!! The only ones on my blocked list are tweenies that keep pestering me to join one of my music groups. Those are the only ones. Oh and I can see that you have seen what is there because you are on my lurk-o-meter at the bottom of the page. So get over YOURSELF!!!!!

    As for the whole "shoe" comment....have not ever heard about "figure of speech"...damn...get off the meds...










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  137. Well, I work for a living and what I do with my "down time" on the weekend is of no concern to anyone but me. If I choose to be online, so be it. That's my choice and I PAY for my time online unlike so many that my tax dollars pay for.

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  138. Well well well...I see what you have done and so conviently too...you've taken an old screen shot you saved on your flickr account and conviently used here....how clever. All I had to do was run my cursor over the pic and it told me where it came from....And imagine that...that photo is private so I can't see exactly what date you put it there or how many other things you have there from my page. Maybe I should report you to flickr.

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  139. She was a very bright and articulate woman- Way ahead of her time.

    XOXO
    Me

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  140. I know that, or at least I sensed that you are holding back.

    I thank you for that too. Especially with me finally losing it on my own blog here- to direct that "at" someone/anyone.
    That is something I do not do (as a general rule of thumb).

    Oh well.

    XOXO
    Me

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  141. Such a barney... tsk tsk

    Again, I must point out the actual blog in question.
    Scroll. You will see that it is specified.
    I have never said I was on any list.


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  142. Exactly what meds do you keep referring to?

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  143. In all honesty, I did that screen shot thing yesterday. (08-30-2010).

    Almost ALL of my photos on Flickr are private.
    (As of this moment), hehehe I have 9,015 things on Flickr. If you think for one minute that I am going to search those items, (18 at a time), on dial up you have another think coming.
    You are not that special.

    Go ahead and report. Screen shots are legal.

    XOXO
    Me





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  144. "There is nothing more dangerous than the conscience of a bigot"
    Now, people, ("fun" as that was), can we please keep to the topic at hand?
    The world is NOT flat.
    My sincere apologies to anyone whose good senses might have been offended by the recent spate of commenting.
    As my title states, "People are different."  Get over it.

    XOXO
    Me



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  145. http://tnj2012.multiply.com/journal/item/165

    From the comments,
    "So make no mistake here... even though the GOP might be leaning toward the support of gay marriage to get votes .... the fact remains that their opposition to it in the first place is UNCONSTITUTIONAL, and they all took an oath when they got the seats they are in right now to UPHOLD the Constitution... not dishonor it and continue ripping it apart for their own advantage!"

    Well said.

    XOXO
    Me

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  146. First and FOREMOST, watch the judgement little girl.... Let's not get to throwing inconsiderate comments and snide remarks around. I've warned you before, but it seems that you are so "open-minded" that everything just falls out... So I'll say it again:

    Once YOU start throwing around insults, don't be so ignorantly surprised when your own words and actions get thrown back into your face... You don't like it? Don't have time for it?

    THEN LEAVE...

    No one has asked you to be here. Oh, wait, I'm wrong about that... Someone felt the need to lie about what Mom was writing and tell you we were speaking ill of you... Frankly, I wouldn't care less if you just disappeared. Nor would a lot of other people on here. Except maybe those who read your comments as a sort of comic relief. (I have to admit, they can be quite hilarious in their own stupid ways...)

    Honestly, though, who the hell are you to judge Mom or anyone else on here. You are NOT her friend. You are NOT her family. And you sure as hell are NOT her God. So take those dumb assumptions and shove 'em... You know NOTHING about her situation...

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  147. There you go assuming again... And showing your true stupidity...

    Mom, like I, highlight certain parts of a comment NOT to run up the comment count, but to respond to very different points of a comment separately. Comment counts really mean nothing, it is what is IN the comments that mean something. Quality over quantity. But I guess someone as material as you would accuse someone of doing such a thing... Petty... Real petty...

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  148. Seriously! You have so missed the point on this... Let me explain it for you on a much simpler level so that maybe you can comprehend it...

    Above, you've stated:

    "There are people on my page that do not agree with alot of my opinions BUT we discuss, agree to disagree and move on...unlike what goes on here."

    So, by saying that, you are saying that you welcome differing points of views from anyone and everyone. That we are welcome to your page because it's so harmonious and peaceful and la-ti-dah...

    Mom then pointed out that you intentionally block people who you don't agree with, proving that the above quote about "moving on" or "agreeing to disagree" is total bull...

    Do you get it now???

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  149. You are most right! If we looked at the roads we were on compared to the lonely path that Miss Map has taken, I don't think she'd even be able to see us...

    It is sad that those who know nothing profess to know everything... What a lonely and pathetic life! Many of the words that she has thrown at me, personally, have been so hateful and so purely evil that it shook me to think someone so dark had come across me... She is spiteful, mean, and cruel, and could care less how her actions and words affect others. I was once hurt by her words, yet am no longer. Her words cannot hurt me as they no longer mean anything to me.

    However, when she tries to stomp down, and degrade my friends and family, I'll die before I'll refuse to stand up and defend them. That's just who I am... I can't watch someone trying to injure another human being and just turn and walk away. To me, that is more cruel than the one doing the hurting...

    THANK YOU so much for your intelligent and truthful words!! She can call us whatever she wants whether it's "sheep" or "lemmigs" but I don't care. I'm HONORED and PROUD to be part of this kind, intelligent and united force!!!

    Love you!
    ~Casey

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  150. Sweetie, I see that you really are too lost for your own good... I guess we go to the kindergarten level:

    1. You accused Mom of having too much time to spend online.

    2. You have scolded her for this so called "fact" from Goddess Pam...

    3. You've also pointed out that you have to "work" and blah blah blah, so you DON'T have time for this...

    4. Yet you keep coming on here at all hours... Stangerdaze happened to point out that you are doing exactly what you're accusing Flintville of doing...


    Get it now?

    If not, well, sorry I really can't dumb it down for you anymore than we already have...

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  151. You're such a blatant LIAR!



    How's this for proof??? Go ahead, it's public... You can see exactly when it was taken... And when it was uploaded... If you really want to take this a step farther, I can include even more proof that this was all done yesterday, for I can redo it for today as well...

    You know how we all know you're a liar? Because you are so full of contradictions! Which one is it? Is your page open or closed? Does this blocked page not exist or is it old?

    The truth doesn't change, little girl... You'll learn that when you grow up...

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  152. You "Go" Casey!
    FYI, Yes, she was here and read... Understanding? Not sure.

    Do know this- (Theodore Roosevelt),
    "Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."

    Know also how very much your spirit is loved by mine.

    XOXO
    Me

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  153. Dearest Annie,

    But Annie, She paid it back! She didn't consider it stealing, nor embezzeling. Go figure!

    oxox,
    snotball

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  154. Holy Crap!
    Wow. I have heard of these things happening- to pay off gambling debts- to abet a kleptomaniacal urge... But I have never ever heard of paying for a wedding WITH embezzled funds!
    What gall!
    And I imagine she wore white? (Or was it prison stripes?

    XOXO
    Me

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  155. Not sure what she wore other than a VERY expensive gown. She wanted a LARGE fancy wedding and she got it. She married a millionaire so Ryan had the best of all "things" but not his Daddy. This from a woman that has sung Christian music all over the world. She has been recorded and has recorded songs my Brother has written. She obsesses over Ryan and her appearance. If Tim and Darla were scheduled to appear somewhere and she broke a nail, it became a national crisis until she could get a professional manicure done. Smooth it out herself and go on??? Not in THIS life, LOL.

    oxox,
    snotball

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  156. Thought you'd get a kick out of that.

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  157. OMG! How do you take screen shots? That's cool. American Idol? Talk about dumbed down. (Just an opinion people)

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  158. Sarah Palin Supports Dr. Laura Via Twitter: 'don't retreat ... reload!'
    Different subject. Same crap from Palin and Dr. Laura.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/08/18/sarah-palin-supports-dr-laura_n_687148.html

    XOXO
    Me

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  159. "A pansy who lived in Khartoum,Took a lesbian up to his room And they argued all night Over who had the right To do what, and with which, and to whom."

    That's all OK however,
    Who was the best dressed?
    Who had the best hair do?

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  160. Taking a moment to personally thank you for all your "tolerance", and "love". Got a phone call this morning. A gay friend of mine was found hung in his closet yesterday. He hung himself on Thursday. His mom found him. How would you feel if it was your son? Think about that before you say another word against homosexuals. I have grown quite tired of you people. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE STOP SPEWING YOUR HATRED!!!

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  161. Well, I can see there was a lot of productive work going on some places while I was gone....


    Dearest Stanger, I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend. No one should have to ever find their child like that for any reason. So very sad that hate played a role in it.

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  162. I wish I had been in this blog at the start. I would have made a few comments here & there, but I don't think I have time to scroll down for that pleasure.

    I don't know you, Stanger, yet I'm sorry, too. I was sorry when that sweet, gentle young man was murdered because he was gay; I was sad the young transvestite was murdered when some macho men found out "she" was a "he," & for all that such people have suffered, & will continue to suffer as long as there's ignorance & hate.

    I'd like to make one comment, & then leave unless someone refers to me personally.

    "flintville i disagree with you being gay or homosexual is a "CHOICE" one makes, God created mankind in his image, people choose their path, if they want to smoke drink, live like the devil they make choices and eventually pay for those choices."

    This person isn't only ignorant, but illiterate. (They often go together, but not always.) If God created mankind in his image, this is the (illogical) progression of thought. God is a man. All humans are men, (mankind), & we all look alike.

    As logical as the "All dogs have four legs, therefor, all animals with four legs are dogs."

    Oh dear, but I'm a woman, & I forgot woman was made from Adam's rib! That must have been some very advanced surgery! Actually, the whole sex issue is a sin, & woman started the damned thing!

    NO. Sexual orientation is NOT a choice. Do a little research on it, DimWit. Also, who would "choose" it when it causes murder & suicide? Animals are homosexual as well. Do they choose?

    Last words. One cannot rationalize with an irrational person. I wouldn't even respond to Pam, unless she insulted one of my friends. To me, that's like poking a stick through the bars where a rabid animal is caged.

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  163. Woman is the final draft. Funny how God made "man" in his image, but soon had to make a woman to perfect it! Thank you for your condolences Scootch.

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  164. I hope your friend's mom has emotional support from friends & family members, & that she knows many of us grieve for her & her son. I sincerely do.

    As to woman, the way I see the fable is that God 'made' her to test the loyalty of the two to his warning, thereby causing "Original Sin" & making woman a second class creature for centuries.

    At times, I wish that certain humans didn't exist at all. The brainless who spew hatred & cause such tragedies as the death of your friend.

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  165. I have included this within my own post of yesterday-
    I will also link to the obituary you posted, tomorrow.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    XOXO
    Me

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  166. After I mention how sweet and compassionate you are, you must define "some"-

    XOXO
    Mama D

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  167. My Dear Ms. Scootch;
    Seems to me that I wish you had been here from the beginning also.
    As you probably know by now, I have little patience for anyone the likes of the doubtfired that has replied. And not only for their obvious lack of feeling...
    Irrational? Quite probably the best word yet.
    I have apt descriptive words myself, but won't use them on this blog.

    And I know you haven't been around too long- ...Reading the bs must make you second~guess that invitation, eh?
    I do have a tendency to get very ugly at those who could care more about their neighbor, and don't.

    Know that with the words above she HAS insulted my family, and some of my friends.
    (And around these parts one gets precisely what they give). And sometimes more...

    This is the same person that (and I quote), verbatim now...
    "I can make my own intelligent opinion and decision without reading pages of legal mumbo-jumbo."
    end quote, as we debated the health care bill way back when.

    I thank you for being here.
    My apologies that we meet at such a hellish time.

    XOXO
    Me

    PS
    I am happy you have a sense of humor too.
    I laughed my ass off at your dog logic...
    (And shall file that away with the rest of it all). hehehe

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  168. You have asked such an obvious question.
    Isn't it a shame that something as tawdry as what sex can be can cause those murders and suicides?
    Or from a better angle, as wonderful as what love can be, can cause such negativity?
    I think that is the very worst of all of it.

    Oh, WHY do we allow ourselves to be so narrow and closed?
    What happens to a tiny child that makes it grow into something so hateful and intolerant?

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  169. Many people will not believe your statement as fact. (I think then they should then reread the blog itself).

    Animals do not have free will.
    (Then again, that may not be true according to my own pets). hehehe

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  170. Are you and Lester related then?
    hehehe

    XOXO
    me

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  171. I wish the same; knowing full well it puts me right into that narrow category.
    Then again, maybe I am here to show people that "people are people" no matter what.

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  172. I think those people are there for a reason. I know each hurdle makes us stronger. I am reminded of this:
    STRUGGLING TO FLY

    One day a small opening appeared on a cocoon; a man sat and watched for the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no further.

    So the man decided to help the butterfly, he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

    The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

    What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

    Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly.

    -- Unknown

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  173. So, I've been reading all these "wonderful" comments and the only hate I see is NOT coming from me. I merely stated my belief about marriage and all hell broke loose. There was NO hate,No malice in my comment. I simply stated MY belief. I am not forcing my belief off on any one but it sure seems that everyone else's beliefs are being forced on me. Just because I don't believe the same way everyone else does that has comment does NOT mean I hate gays. Hell, I work with several and if I hated gays I wouldn't want to work around them, I'd be asking to be relocated in the plant...I have several gay friends as well. BUT they do respect my beliefs and opinions.

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  174. Damn glad this isn't pen and paper because you would be one hell of a waste of ink.

    As to my reply to your message- "Yeah, right"

    Nice try. Map.

    Bye now

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