[My] Life in Wisconsin

Divorce Question-

Good Morning All;
I have a little question for you.
An acquaintance of mine went through a divorce almost 4 years ago.
They had been married 33 years. "The only man I'll ever love" etc etc etc...
Then... she goes on and on and on about how raunchy he is, and all of his idiosyncrasies that she HATES!

Of course she blames HIM for everything wrong in her life; when all that IS really wrong, is her own way of thinking, (& literally feeling so pitiful).
She already has gone through 3 therapists, I would imagine because she won't work with them.

it is very hard to see anyone self destruct, and I don't know what more to say to her.

A few words? 
personally, I think it is high time that perhaps a little tough love might do the trick.
Maybe?
Maybe not?

And though I HATE to say it, she, (along with many others like her), give divorced women everywhere a bad name.
-ya know?

XOXO
Me