[My] Life in Wisconsin

History. My Home.


John Yusvak, my grandfather

Good Morning!

This blog is in answer to RT's comment in my last blog about what the heck was on my staircase in that picture... I have decided to reply here as my grandchildren may one day be interested in it all.

RT asks, "Were your parents the ones who originally built the house? I don't know where I got the impression that it was older than that."

You are right. Many parts of my house ARE older than what you might think.
Read on.

My grandfather bought the land in the early 1920's.
The land east of the house- where my garden is, and beyond, was an old dump. (Cool)!
Mom found many artifacts, and even arrowheads, in that garden.
There are still Indian kilns in the woods down by the river. (Native American Indian).

Anyhow, there was no home on the property when Grandma and Grandpa bought it.
Grandpa, working for the railroad, moved the 'house' that had been abandoned, from on the hill (just west off what is Pittco Road now), to here.
The well pump is still up there, and last I knew, still worked. Oddly enough I do not know where the original well was here. I believe it was just north of the home, but am unsure.

That 'house' that my fathers father 'moved' is what my kitchen area is now. This part of my house is over 200 years old; and, as you can guess is very, very, solid.

Throughout the years, my grandfather built their own kitchen for Grandma- This is now the east end of my living room, as mom and dad remodeled just after they got married in 1949.

When Dad remodeled in 49-50, he added the back room.
This room is off to the left at the bottom of the staircase in the pictures.
~ When I was growing up, we always called this room "Grandma's Room". This is where Grandma stayed and prayed.
Incidentally, this also became my mothers room in her last few years as climbing the steps was out of the question for her to do.
Once again it became "Grandma's Room"
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Stairwell


Grandpa also had built the upstairs, but it remained unused, never finished until mom and dad got married.
My Dad slept up there before he married, and used a ladder to climb up there every night.

This ladder was located about halfway up the living room wall.
When Mom and Dad remodeled in 1949-50, he added the staircase, thus removing that ladder.

In 1956 came the bathroom, which in the pictures is the doorway at the bottom of the stairwell. He also dug out the basement (by hand), and added the back entrance that same year.
The door that comes into the kitchen (from the back entrance), is original to the 1920's, perhaps before. The glass is handblown.
This was their 'outside' door for many years.

My grandfather, John Yusvak, died in 1934, having a heart attack at his work.
My grandmother, Katherine (Radetsky)-Yusvak died here when I was 4/5, in 1962/1963.
I believe that both of them were laid out in the living room for their wakes, about where I am seated now. This was the custom of the day.
My mother passed away here also.

The history of the 'house' that Grandpa relocated to this plot is basically unknown. I know for sure there was a schoolteacher that lived in it.
The old schoolhouse was about 1/4 of a mile away from here, right in Flintville; and was used until the mid~1950's (to the best of my knowledge).

I also think the schoolmarms name was "Cook" but am unsure. She would have been teaching during the turn of the last century (1900's).

What happened "in" the kitchen when it was first built, (and "when" it was first built), is unknown to me.

I still have all of Mama's journals stored in the attic.
I have not touched them. Ever.
Perhaps one day I will. I have not yet felt comfortable enough to do so.


And so Sweet RT, you have asked... I hope this has clarified a bit of it for you.

More questions anyone? Ask away. I promise to try to answer them all.

XOXO
Me



36 comments:

  1. wow, that house has a lot of history and many parts added on. is there another stairwell to the attic or is it one that you have a fold up ladder to pull down to get to it?

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  2. The attic itself is a walk-in, running 2/3rs the length of the house.
    The 3rd level if you can even call it that, is only insulation and roof.

    XOXO
    Me

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  3. that sounds like the old farmhouse I lived in while growing up! me and my sister had our bedroom in there and it was long and low.

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  4. After Mom and Dad had no more foster children, we each got our own bedroom too.
    Like other families, there were times we wanted to sleep in each others room.
    I slept in hers only once.
    I had THE most terrifying nightmare of my life that night, so I never went back to that room.
    Casey had that room for years, and never had any bad experiences there.
    I can only guess it is sleeping with my sister that is the nightmare then. hehehe

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  5. I can honestly say that would be true for me if I slept in my sisters room.

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  6. I remember you mentioning that the school house was a short distance from your house (and because of your address when you've sent me things.)

    Wouldn't your courthouse have old records of who owned the house in the 20s? They would at least have land deeds recorded, which would indicate who built the house in the 20s. Courthouses have been recording land deeds since the late 1600s. But then there have also been fires and floods and other stuff that would ruin the old records.

    Which, BTW, is one reason you absolutely MUST do something with your mom's journals. If for no other reason than to make copies of them, and put the originals in zip lock bags, then put them in a safe deposit box at your bank. They would be something I would think you'd want to preserve for the next generations. And, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to read them. You might learn all sorts of new things about her. I think everyone who writes in a diary or journal assumes that someday, when they're gone, they will be read. Don't you want your grandchildren to read all the stuff you've written?

    ~Maybe that's why the spirits keep coming to visit you - they want to know if you've finally read your mom's journals! Just kidding. And sorry if I sounded bossy in telling you what to do with your mom's journals, I was only basing what I said on what I'd want to do with them. You do what you think is best.

    Just curious - what was the nightmare about, that you had when you slept in your mom's room?

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  7. Not sure. The date on the outside of the county courthouse is 1908 or 1912. (I can't remember which it is right now). Lord only knows where the records were before that.

    The 'house' would have been built long before then to have been abandoned and moved in the 20's.

    I always thought 'oh I would LOVE to read her journals' But when I go to the attic the time is not right. it will be at some point, and I will know then.
    (And you made me giggle, you didn't sound bossy at all). Well at least I knew what you meant.

    The nightmare was of spiders, and I was sleeping in my sisters room, not moms. Quite literally thousands of spiders. My sister even had them all over her. But she laughed about it They were all over, and with their webs.
    there was also a huge web and spiders in the doorway. When mom figured out why I was screaming she would not even come "in" the room.
    Rather, she made me walk through the doorway. (Seriously, I am not sure if I have ever forgiven her for that either).

    XOXO
    Me

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  8. My journals????
    Only when they are older. Hmmm Maybe older than I am now. Maybe never?!

    But they are welcome to my blog here anytime!
    hehehe

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  9. Love the history! Thanks for sharing it!

    I think you will know when the time is right to read your Mom's journals. Until then keep them safe. :)

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  10. And mine's all of 20 years old and built of cardboard! Well, something that looks very like cardboard anyhow!

    Thanks for the wonderful history Anne. xxxxx

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  11. Annie, I'm at work, and am bored, so I decided to do a little research on your spider dream.

    Dreams about spiders frequently have an emphasis on femininity, because the spider is seen as a symbol of feminine power. Alternatively, a spider may refer to a powerful force protecting you against your self-destructive behavior. Freud mentions a case in which a spider represented one aspect of the mother, namely, an angry mother, of whom the child was afraid.

    A spider dream may represent a fear, like a fear of being bitten, or of feeling trapped in a web of deceit or entangled by emotions and deep psychological pain from which you can’t escape. A spider can also be a symbol of an aggressive or cruel female.

    A spider dream may also be symbolic of intrigue, criticism, secrecy, greed, or cunningness. If you see a spider in its own nest in your dream, it alerts you not to be taken advantage of by someone nearby or not to be trapped. Also, if you get caught in a spider’s nest in a dream, it shows your current situation in which you are struggling under a vicious circle.

    A spider web may represent being caught up or ensnared in something that is dangerous or unhealthy for you. This symbolization could hold true in situations were you may feel suffocated or trapped, as prey would feel when they are entangled in a spider’s web. Being tangled in a web can be a good indicator that you find yourself stuck in a complex relationship with no obvious way out.

    Insects of any kind in a dream mean something in your waking hours is bugging you. Emotions are too much for you to handle - conflict, irritations, dependent emotions, feeling caught and trapped in a situation. Spider dreams are spelling out that you’re headed for, or are in, a relationship crisis that you need to extricate yourself from.

    Spiders represent the Web of Life. Humans, past, present, future are all connected to the Web of Life.

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    Because you are Native American this may be of interest to you -

    Spider totems. Totems normally choose who will be their "prey". We really don't have a choice.

    The most powerful totems are often creatures you despise, and/or are frightened of. They're not always the cute and cuddly ones, or the strong and majestic ones you want most.

    Totems can come into your life to teach, and the lesson may be one of acceptance and respect for things you hate. Your totem can be one that you have come into physical contact with, and it has left a scratch, a bite or some other mark upon you (does mental anguish count?).

    In time you may come to see how beautiful the spider really is, and how crafty she is with her web. What we live in is referred to as the "web of life". It echoes back our ties to one another and to the earth. The web also symbolizes the amazing interconnectedness of the human body, mind and soul. Our different levels of being are all strung together like the strands of a web. And, what affects us physically will affect us mentally and spiritually as well - and vice versa for them. Being mindful of this in everyday life helps us to understand how our own bodies react to different types of healing, foods, situations, stress, etc. It also makes us aware of how psychically sensitive we are.

    Spiders show up to teach acceptance of the "not so beautiful" in life. Things, situations and people shunned in the past because of looks, and such, are now found as interesting, and meaningful. The spider teaches that we all must learn to live together and get along, whether we love each other, or not. Respect can still be shown. This also ties into prejudice issues, and how to deal with them instead of ignoring them.

    Spider is not a totem which bears a quick message, or lesson. She is going to be casting her web of magic around you for a long time to come.

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    Interesting :-)

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  12. The records were probably in the court house that was located in the county seat of your state. Records were sometimes moved to newly established court houses and sometimes they weren't, they sometimes remained at the original location. A lot of states and county court house records are available online. It would be interesting to look into. Call your court house and ask some questions, I'm sure the county clerk would be able to give you the answers you're looking for.

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  13. Someday they'll call to you, and then you'll read them. After you've read them you'll probably wonder why you waited so many years to read them.

    Be prepared, when you finally do read them they'll consume you for quite a while. I had a similar experience with copies of letters that belonged to my great grandparents. The letters were sent to me by a college where my great grandfather was the president of, mixed in with all sorts of other documents. I really wasn't prepared for what was in these letters, and they haunted me for a long time after I read them. But I'm so glad I had the opportunity to read them.

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  14. You are welcome!
    And I think those journals are safe, but I might throw them in a safe deposit box too.
    OK So Mama's box is pretty big. Am thinking that safe deposit box might be a bit expensive...

    XOXO
    me

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  15. So... You don't have any spirits lying around?
    Know that YOUR land is just as old as mine, and spirits come with the land too.

    Cardboard?!? Oh that weird plywood stuff.
    Mine is real wood. And more than strong enough to hold my queen sized waterbed.

    XOXO
    Me

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  16. Sweet Sweet RT;
    Thank you SO much for doing all this research for me! I don't know what to say, or how to reply, only by sending my gratitude.

    Not sure how much info I had stored in my brain at that point. I wasn't even 8 I don't think.
    But knowing about our own spirits "cell memory" and all, there may have been more than what I think there was.

    XOXO
    Me

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  17. Freud was the original perv IMHO.

    I wasn't afraid of mother.
    But I sure as hell WAS of those webs in the doorway that she made me go through.

    Parents:
    Know that making your child 'face their fears' does nothing more than imprint more fear upon them.
    It also makes them NOT trust you.

    XOXO
    Me, "Been there, done that"

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  18. My sister. My mother?
    Know I love them, but there was always this undercurrent with them both.

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  19. This statement brings me back to our sleeping arrangements that night...

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  20. This is oh so true!

    I thank you again!

    XOXO
    Me

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  21. At some point I will call them.
    I have to touch base with a gal whose husband died last year anyway, and will make a point of contacting her about this. She works at the courthouse. Has, for 20+ years.

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  22. hehehe

    I wrote my journals and poetry- Most pre-blog.

    XOXO
    Me

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  23. I have an old diary out that turned up not with her other ones.
    It is from before she married Daddy.
    I have paged through it from time to time, and still feel weird doing so.

    ... Maybe I have procrastinated with these because i do not wish to deal with her own haunting spirit in addition to my own.

    XOXO
    Me

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  24. I don't know what kind of relationship you had with your mom, but maybe by reading her journals you would find bits and pieces of yourself in her thoughts which might bring you peace ... or maybe not ;-)

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  25. No thanks are necessary - it was a fun way to to spend a boring night at work. Besides, because of my last name I've always had sort of an affinity with spiders, and I think their webs are one of the most beautiful and creative works of art in Nature.

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  26. Webs might be pretty- in the morning dews, or after a frost.
    But there is NOTHING pretty about one when they are across your face.

    Eeks...

    XOXO
    me


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  27. Interesting read for sure Annie .. I am sure you will read the journals when your ready but I would do something to make sure they don't fade out.. There must be some way of storing them so they won't deteriorate

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  28. Anne....it stands to reason "why" you capture those images with your night-time setting with your camera. Knowing now that you had close loved ones actually pass away there, no need to wonder who the visitors are. Only which one.

    Your home has lots of good family history. As a spirit, I would want to still hang around there too!

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  29. Weird stuff that's for sure Sweetie...
    Will indelible ink fade? mama generally used black bics.

    They seem to be stored ok in a box in the attic. We rarely go in there.
    No pets. No smoke. No humidity.
    I haven't looked at them; never even considered they would fade or anything...
    Will check on them when I get home.

    XOXO
    Me

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  30. Sweet PeachieBaby;
    I know/feel when things are about/off.
    But I do question the 'who' factor - Sometimes thinking and wondering who may have lived, or died, in the part of the house that was moved...

    It is a good family home, so that is a very very rich part of it all.

    XOXO
    me

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  31. WOW RT!!!

    This is such cool information!!! (Even though it's on the animal that I'm SO fearful of...) You really came up with some interesting stuff on here and most of it is relevant!

    I just had an awful dream about tarantulas last night... Long story short, I ended up killing one but before it died, it gave me panic attack after panic attack in my dreams... I wonder if I really was having panic attacks! Sure could have been with how anxious I am about this upcoming surgery...

    Thank you for all this information, it was quite enlightening!

    Love you!
    ~Casey

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