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An Ethical Responsibility to Teachers and Parents

This, for all parents and teachers of every nation, race and creed...

Please feel free to link and to borrow the enclosed text. I will be bringing it to our local schools.

The following, because of our proximity to "Columbus Day"... (WHAT?!)?!?!?

Good Morning All!

It is a damp day, and 50 degrees as I type. (Beats the heck out of 90+ if you ask me).

A very good day to be cleaning too. (I will get to that nonsense when I am through here).

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The following artwork was done by my niece, Meghand Dorand Keirs. She is a highly talented and respected artist. (Click on her name if you might like to see more of what she has done).

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Having been trying to catch up on a few blogs, and being reminded that apathy and ignorance run rampant among some of us, I searched my danged computer for hours to find where I had stashed the following words... This, all brought on by reading Buttercups Blog about "Cowboys and Indians" from early this morning. Please click on that title should you want to see what made me go on a wild goose chase for these notes and ideas...

I am sorry that I cannot give credit to the author (but I know I had stolen it from one of the Native Groups on here).

Of interest is that every group of "peoples" that ourselves, (and our children), will ever interact with, can actually 'use' these ideas... whether of Native/Indigenous descent or not.

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Teaching the Young about Native Americans



Young children's conceptions of Native Americans often develop out of media portrayals and classroom role playing of the events of the First Thanksgiving. The conception of Native Americans gained from such early exposure is both inaccurate and potentially damaging to others.

For example, a visitor to a child care center heard a four-year-old saying, "Indians aren't people. They're all dead." ...This child had already acquired an inaccurate view of Native Americans, even though her classmates were children of many cultures, including a Native American child.

Derman-Sparks (1989) asserts that by failing to challenge existing biases we allow children to adopt attitudes based on inaccuracies. Her book is a guide for developing curriculum materials that reflect cultural diversity. This digest seeks to build on this effort by focusing on teaching children in early childhood classrooms about Native Americans.

Note that this digest, though it uses the term "Native American," recognizes and respects the common use of the term "American Indian" to describe the indigenous people of North America. While it is most accurate to use the tribal name when speaking of a specific tribe, there is no definitive preference for the use of "Native American" or "American Indian" among tribes or in the general literature.



STEREOTYPES CHILDREN SEE


Most young children are familiar with stereotypes of the Native American. Stereotypes are perpetuated by television, movies, and children's literature when they depict Native Americans negatively, as uncivilized, simple, superstitious, blood-thirsty savages, or positively, as romanticized heroes living in harmony with nature (Grant & Gillespie, 1992). The Disney Company presents both images in its films for children. For example, in the film PETER PAN, Princess Tiger Lily's father represents the negative stereotype as he holds Wendy's brothers hostage, while in the film POCAHONTAS, Pocahontas represents the positive stereotype who respects the earth and communicates with the trees and animals.

Many popular children's authors unwittingly perpetuate stereotypes. Richard Scarry's books frequently contain illustrations of animals dressed in buckskin and feathers, while Mercer Mayer's alphabet book includes an alligator dressed as an Indian. Both authors present a dehumanized image, in which anyone or anything can become Native American simply by putting on certain clothes. TEN LITTLE RABBITS, although beautifully illustrated, dehumanizes Native Americans by turning them into objects for counting. BROTHER EAGLE, SISTER SKY (Harris, 1993) contains a speech delivered by Chief Seattle of the Squamish tribe in the northwestern United States. However, Susan Jeffers' illustrations are of the Plains Indians, and include fringed buckskin clothes and teepees, rather than Squamish clothing and homes.



AN ACCURATE PICTURE OF NATIVE AMERICANS



Native Americans make up less than one percent of the total U.S. population; yet represent HALF the languages and cultures in the nation.

The term "Native American" includes over 500 different groups and reflects great diversity of geographic location, language, socioeconomic conditions, school experience, and retention of traditional spiritual and cultural practices. However, most of the commercially prepared teaching materials available present a generalized image of Native American people with little or no regard for differences that exist from tribe to tribe.



TEACHING SUGGESTIONS


When teachers engage young children in project work, teachers should choose concrete topics in order to enable children to draw on their own understanding. In teaching about Native Americans, the most relevant, interactive experience would be to have Native American children in the classroom. Such experience makes feasible implementing anti-bias curriculum suggestions. Teachers may want to implement the project approach (Katz & Chard, 1989), as it will allow children to carry on an in-depth investigation of a culture they have direct experience with.

In these situations, teachers may prepare themselves for working with Native American families by engaging in what Emberton (1994) calls "cultural homework": reading current information about the families' tribe, tribal history, and traditional recreational and spiritual activities; and learning the correct pronunciation of personal names.



POSITIVE STRATEGIES


A number of positive strategies can be used in classrooms, regardless of whether Native American children are members of the class.

1. PROVIDE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT CONTEMPORARY NATIVE AMERICANS to balance historical information. Teaching about Native Americans exclusively from a historical perspective may perpetuate the idea that they exist only in the past.

2. PREPARE UNITS ABOUT SPECIFIC TRIBES, rather than units about "Native Americans." For example, develop a unit about the people of Nambe Pueblo, the Turtle Mountain Chippewa, the Potawotami. Ideally, choose a tribe with a historical or contemporary role in the local community. Such a unit will provide children with culturally specific knowledge (pertaining to a single group) rather than overgeneralized stereotypes.

3. LOCATE AND USE BOOKS THAT SHOW CONTEMPORARY CHILDREN OF ALL COLORS ENGAGED IN THEIR USUAL, DAILY ACTIVITIES playing basketball, riding bicycles as well as traditional activities. Make the books easily accessible to children throughout the school year.

Three excellent titles on the Pueblo Indians of New Mexico are: PUEBLO STORYTELLER, by Diane Hoyt-Goldsmith; PUEBLO BOY: GROWING UP IN TWO WORLDS, by Marcia Keegan; and CHILDREN OF CLAY, by Rina Swentzell.

4. OBTAIN POSTERS THAT SHOW NATIVE AMERICAN CHILDREN IN CONTEMPORARY CONTEXTS, especially when teaching younger elementary children. When selecting historical posters for use with older children, make certain that the posters are culturally authentic and that you know enough about the tribe depicted to share authentic information with your students.

5. USE "PERSONA" DOLLS (dolls with different skin colors) in the dramatic play area of the classroom on a daily basis. Dress them in the same clothing (t-shirts, jeans) children in the United States typically wear and bring out special clothing (for example, manta, shawl, moccasins, turquoise jewelry for Pueblo girls) for dolls only on special days.

6. COOK ETHNIC FOODS but be careful not to imply that all members of a particular group eat a specific food.

7. BE SPECIFIC ABOUT WHICH TRIBES USE PARTICULAR ITEMS.

when discussing cultural artifacts (such as clothing or housing) and traditional foods. The Plains tribes use feathered headdresses, for example, but not all other tribes use them.

8. CRITIQUE A THANKSGIVING POSTER DEPICTING THE TRADITIONAL, STEREOTYPED PILGRIM AND INDIAN FIGURES.

... especially when teaching older elementary school children. Take care to select a picture that most children are familiar with, such as those shown on grocery bags or holiday greeting cards. Critically analyze the poster, noting the many tribes the artist has combined into one general image that fails to provide accurate information about any single tribe. (Stutzman, 1993).

9. AT THANKSGIVING, SHIFT THE FOCUS AWAY FROM RE~ENACTING THE "FIRST THANKSGIVING."

Instead, focus on items children can be thankful for in their own lives, and on their families' celebrations of Thanksgiving at home.

Besides using these strategies in their classrooms, teachers need to educate themselves.

MacCann (1993) notes that stereotyping is not always obvious to people surrounded by mainstream culture. Numerous guidelines have been prepared to aid in the selection of materials that work against stereotypes (for example, see Slapin and Seale [1992]).



PRACTICES TO AVOID:

  • AVOID USING OVER-GENERALIZED BOOKS, curriculum guides, and lesson plans; and teaching kits with a "Native American" theme. Although the goal of these materials is to teach about other cultures in positive ways, most of the materials group Native Americans too broadly. When seeking out materials, look for those which focus on a single tribe.


  • AVOID THE "TOURIST CURRICULUM" as described by Derman-Sparks. This kind of curriculum teaches predominantly through celebrations and seasonal holidays, and through traditional food and artifacts. It teaches in isolated units rather than in an integrated way and emphasizes exotic differences, focusing on specific events rather than on daily life.

  • AVOID PRESENTING SACRED ACTIVITIES IN TRIVIAL WAYS. In early childhood classrooms, for example, a popular activity involves children in making headbands with feathers, even though feathers are highly religious articles for some tribes. By way of example, consider how a devout Catholic might feel about children making a chalice out of paper cups and glitter.

  • AVOID INTRODUCING THE TOPIC OF NATIVE AMERICANS ON COLUMBUS DAY OR AT THANKSGIVING. Doing so perpetuates the idea that Native Americans do not exist in the present.



CONCLUSION:

Much remains to be done to counter stereotypes of Native Americans learned by young children in our society.

Teachers must provide accurate instruction not only about history; but also about the contemporary lives of Native Americans. '

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"Teachers must teach"
-without prejudice, bias, or duress.

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Sunset at Flintville... 09~09~07
Yes, I must have a pretty nasty camera when a painting looks so much better than a photo!

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Hope you all have a wonderful Monday!

XOXO
Anne

NATIVE AMERICAN TEACHINGS, from RT's Blog click and watch

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TEACHERS, NATIVE CODE OF ETHICS LINK click

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Teachers MAKE every other profession. click

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RANDOM...

A few thoughts and things that have crossed my mind, entered my email, and found their way to various 360 sites too...

As you know, I rarely post thoughts/ideas that are not my own... Some of these are just way too clever not to share... Or perhaps way too thought~provoking... Or maybe even funny!

I will follow~up with "my own" blog shortly. In the meantime, please be kind, tolerant... and never ever be afraid to laugh out loud!

XOXO
Anne

Missy ANGEL on how to ask for friendship on the 360! CLICK HERE

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DeeAnne's wicked confession?!? CLICK HERE

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Native American Indian Traditional Code of Ethics
From "Inter-Tribal Times" October `1994

1. Each morning upon rising, and each evening before sleeping, give thanks for the life within you and for all life, for the good things the Creator has given you and for the opportunity to grow a little more each day. Consider your thoughts and actions of the past day and seek for the courage and strength to be a better person. Seek for the things that will benefit others (everyone).

2. Respect. Respect means "To feel or show honor or esteem for someone or something; to consider the well being of, or to treat someone or something with deference or courtesy". Showing respect is a basic law of life.

a. Treat every person from the tiniest child to the oldest elder with respect at all times.

b. Special respect should be given to Elders, Parents, Teachers, and Community Leaders.

c. No person should be made to feel "put down" by you. Avoid hurting other hearts as you would avoid a deadly poison.

d. Touch nothing that belongs to someone else (especially Sacred Objects) without permission, or an understanding between you.

e. Respect the privacy of every person, never intrude on a person's quiet moment or personal space.

f. Never walk between people that are conversing.

g. Never interrupt people who are conversing.

h. Speak in a soft voice, especially when you are in the presence of Elders, or strangers or others to whom special respect is due.

i. Do not speak unless invited to do so at gatherings where Elders are present. (except to ask what is expected of you, should you be in doubt).

j. Never speak about others in a negative way, whether they are present or not.

k. Treat the earth and all of her aspects as your mother. Show deep respect for the mineral world, the plant world, and the animal world. Do nothing to pollute our Mother, rise up with wisdom to defend her.

l. Show deep respect for the beliefs and religion of others.

m. Listen with courtesy to what others say, even if you feel that what they are saying is worthless. Listen with your heart.

n. Respect the wisdom of the people in council. Once you give an idea to a council meeting it no longer belongs to you. It belongs to the people. Respect demands that you listen intently to the ideas of others in council and that you do not insist that your idea prevail. Indeed you should freely support the ideas of others if they are true and good, even if those ideas are quite different from the ones you have contributed. The clash of ideas brings forth the Spark of Truth.

3. Once a council has decided something in unity, respect demands that no one speak secretly against what has been decided. If the council has made an error, that error will become apparent to everyone in its own time.

4. Be truthful at all times, and under all conditions.

5. Always treat your guests with honor and consideration. Give of your best food, your best blankets, the best part of your house, and your best service to your guests.

6. The hurt of one is the hurt of all, the honor of one is the honor of all.

7. Receive strangers and outsiders with a loving heart and as members of the human family.

8. All the races and tribes in the world are like the different colored flowers of one meadow. All are beautiful. As children of the Creator they must all be respected.

9. To serve others, to be of some use to family, community, nation, and the world is one of the main purposes for which human beings have been created. Do not fill yourself with your own affairs and forget your most important talks. True happiness comes only to those who dedicate their lives to the service of others.

10. Observe moderation and balance in all things.

11. Know those things that lead to your well-being and those things that lead to your destruction.

12. Listen to and follow the guidance given to your heart. Expect guidance to come in many forms; in prayer, in dreams, in times of quiet solitude, and in the words and deeds of wise Elders and friends.

If you have a chance to make life better for others and fail to do so, you are wasting your time on Earth. No matter what our station in life, we are here to serve, even if that sometimes means making the greatest sacrifice of all.

"A warrior is challanged to assume responsibility, practice humility, and display the power of giving, and then center his or her life around a core of spirituality. I challenge todays youth to live like a warrior." Billy Mills

Elder's Meditation of the Day - January 19 "Heal yourself-your physical and spiritual bodies. Regenerate yourself with light, and then help those who have poverty of the soul. Return to the inner spirit, which we have abandoned while looking elsewhere for happiness." --Willaru Huayta, QUECHUA NATION, PERU ***It is difficult to look inside ourselves, especially when we see conflict or confusion. During times of conflict we need to realize that we are talking to ourselves about our thoughts. This conversation is printing in our subconscious and forming our beliefs. During times of conflict we need to ask the spirit to control our self-talk. Only through finding that inner place and going there during troubled times will we ever find happiness.

Posted by: "Dave" ole_deer_hunter Fri Jan 19, 2007 1:26 am (PST)


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For all of us parents who have respect for the teaching profession….and the people who have the patience to teach our kids!!!

Cris

Click on Cris' name (above) to thank her for her respect for these people who teach our young... She has 3 beautiful children!

here is what she emailed me...

WHAT TEACHERS MAKE

(What do YOU make)???

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life. One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education. He argued, "What's a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?" He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach." To stress his point he said to another guest; "You're a teacher, Bonnie. Be honest What do you make?"


Bonnie, (who had a reputation for honesty and frankness), replied,

"You want to know what I make? (She paused for a second, then began...)
"Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.


I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor.


I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents can't make them sit for 5 without an I Pod, Game Cube or movie rental...

You want to know what I make?" (She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table.)

I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them criticize.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

I teach them to write and then I make them write.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math.

I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to know in English while preserving their unique cultural identity.

I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

I make my students stand to say the Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag, because we live in the United States of America.

Finally, I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.

(Bonnie paused one last time and then continued) "Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, I can hold my head up high and pay no attention because they are ignorant"...

You want to know what I make???

I MAKE A DIFFERENCE... ...(What do YOU make)?"


THERE IS MUCH TRUTH HERE: "Teachers make every other profession "

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Are YOU a safe driver? Hows your driving common sense? CLICK HERE to find out!

Note, I took this test, I didn't get ANY wrong; yet just to keep me humble, it told me I had received 95%... (Go figure)!!!

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A little sidenote here before you read the following...

My dogs are NOT spoiled. (They just smell that way)!!! hehehe

This now, from Kashiyumekoinu...

"Dogs are never permitted in the house. The dog stays outside in a specially built wooden compartment named, for very good reason, the dog house.

Okay, the dog can enter the house but only for short visits or if his own house is under renovation.

Okay, the dog can stay in the house on a permanent basis provided his dog house can be sold in a lawn sale to a rookie dog owner.

Inside the house, the dog is not allowed to run free and is confined to a comfortable but secure metal cage.

Okay, the cage becomes part of a two-for-one deal in the lawn sale, and the dog can go wherever the hell he pleases.

The dog is never allowed on the furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the old furniture but not the new furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the new furniture until it looks like the old furniture and then we'll sell the whole works and buy new furniture on which the dog will most definitely not be allowed.

The dog never sleeps on the bed. Period.

Okay, the dog can sleep at the foot of the bed only.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, but he's not allowed under the covers.

Okay, the dog can sleep under the covers but not with his head on the pillow.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, under the covers with his head on the pillow, but if he snores, he's got to leave the room.

Okay, the dog can sleep and snore and have nightmares in your bed, but he's not to come in and sleep on the couch in the TV room, where you're now sleeping. That's just not fair.

The dog never gets listed on the census questionnaire as "primary resident" even if it's true.

This was stolen from Kashiyumekoinu's blog pages.. Please CLICK HERE for her site; and more about dogs-

She has many passions about these critters that we all should love--- (and many links to prove that THAT is NOT true in all cases). How awful is that?

and one of the comments left on that page too...

Visitors please note

1. The couch and armchair by the TV are for our own and sole use, although we do share with mummy for cuddle time. Kindly use 2nd armchair or sit on the floor. If proving uncomfortable or inconvenient, you may meet up with mummy at The Gallery (Local cafe)

2. Mummy's very busy fulfilling our every needs. Cuddle time (As and when we feel need/want it) Is a very private and special moment to us. You may remain in the room on the condition that you will not disrupt. You may watch TV (If it's on) Read a book (Kindly bring your own, mummy's books are for her own use) or fall asleep if you wish. Alternatively you may wish to go for a walk.

3. Raising your voice or making sudden moves is strictly not allowed.

4. Do not ask us to sit or lay down, do not ask us to be quiet. We live here, you don't

5. Many germs are spread by hand contact. We don't know what you've touched, whether your hands are clean or not. Consequently do not pat us. You may sniff our butt, that is as long as you do not have halitosis.

6. Guest room doesn't mean that the room is yours while you stay with us. It only means that you get to sleep on the bed. We reserve the right to inspect the room, your luggage and steal your socks if feeling like it.

7. When going walkies, kindly refrain from attempting to walk us on the leash, throw a ball or anything expecting us to play. We hate show offs.

8. You are not allowed near our treat box. Mummy and daddy give treats because we trust them. They fill it up after all. Any other human approaching our treat box will be considered a potential thief and treated accordingly.

9. Our bedroom is ours. We share with mummy and daddy only. Kindly refrain from entering our room.

10. Because we live in the countryside doesn't mean that our home is open 24/7 for humans wishing to enjoy a week end away. There are hotels/ Bed and breakfasts/ Camp sites for that purpose. Keep visits to minimum, and only by prior invitation.

11. Feel welcome to bring your own dog to visit. Cats strictly disallowed.

12. As a human mummy may feel obliged to be nice to you. This doesn't mean that she likes you, simply that she's being polite. We canines do not believe in hypocrisy. WE decide if we like YOU or not.

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.
~anonymous~
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OK enough of this all... I shall be back shortly with 'my own' thoughts~n~things!!!

XOXO
Anne

top picture courtesy of... http://www.miv.t.u-tokyo.ac.jp/icon/obj.html

RANDOM...

A few thoughts and things that have crossed my mind, entered my email, and found their way to various 360 sites too...

As you know, I rarely post thoughts/ideas that are not my own... Some of these are just way too clever not to share... Or perhaps way too thought~provoking... Or maybe even funny!

I will follow~up with "my own" blog shortly. In the meantime, please be kind, tolerant... and never ever be afraid to laugh out loud!

XOXO
Anne

Missy ANGEL on how to ask for friendship on the 360! CLICK HERE

-------

DeeAnne's wicked confession?!? CLICK HERE

-----

Native American Indian Traditional Code of Ethics
From "Inter-Tribal Times" October `1994

1. Each morning upon rising, and each evening before sleeping, give thanks for the life within you and for all life, for the good things the Creator has given you and for the opportunity to grow a little more each day. Consider your thoughts and actions of the past day and seek for the courage and strength to be a better person. Seek for the things that will benefit others (everyone).

2. Respect. Respect means "To feel or show honor or esteem for someone or something; to consider the well being of, or to treat someone or something with deference or courtesy". Showing respect is a basic law of life.

a. Treat every person from the tiniest child to the oldest elder with respect at all times.

b. Special respect should be given to Elders, Parents, Teachers, and Community Leaders.

c. No person should be made to feel "put down" by you. Avoid hurting other hearts as you would avoid a deadly poison.

d. Touch nothing that belongs to someone else (especially Sacred Objects) without permission, or an understanding between you.

e. Respect the privacy of every person, never intrude on a person's quiet moment or personal space.

f. Never walk between people that are conversing.

g. Never interrupt people who are conversing.

h. Speak in a soft voice, especially when you are in the presence of Elders, or strangers or others to whom special respect is due.

i. Do not speak unless invited to do so at gatherings where Elders are present. (except to ask what is expected of you, should you be in doubt).

j. Never speak about others in a negative way, whether they are present or not.

k. Treat the earth and all of her aspects as your mother. Show deep respect for the mineral world, the plant world, and the animal world. Do nothing to pollute our Mother, rise up with wisdom to defend her.

l. Show deep respect for the beliefs and religion of others.

m. Listen with courtesy to what others say, even if you feel that what they are saying is worthless. Listen with your heart.

n. Respect the wisdom of the people in council. Once you give an idea to a council meeting it no longer belongs to you. It belongs to the people. Respect demands that you listen intently to the ideas of others in council and that you do not insist that your idea prevail. Indeed you should freely support the ideas of others if they are true and good, even if those ideas are quite different from the ones you have contributed. The clash of ideas brings forth the Spark of Truth.

3. Once a council has decided something in unity, respect demands that no one speak secretly against what has been decided. If the council has made an error, that error will become apparent to everyone in its own time.

4. Be truthful at all times, and under all conditions.

5. Always treat your guests with honor and consideration. Give of your best food, your best blankets, the best part of your house, and your best service to your guests.

6. The hurt of one is the hurt of all, the honor of one is the honor of all.

7. Receive strangers and outsiders with a loving heart and as members of the human family.

8. All the races and tribes in the world are like the different colored flowers of one meadow. All are beautiful. As children of the Creator they must all be respected.

9. To serve others, to be of some use to family, community, nation, and the world is one of the main purposes for which human beings have been created. Do not fill yourself with your own affairs and forget your most important talks. True happiness comes only to those who dedicate their lives to the service of others.

10. Observe moderation and balance in all things.

11. Know those things that lead to your well-being and those things that lead to your destruction.

12. Listen to and follow the guidance given to your heart. Expect guidance to come in many forms; in prayer, in dreams, in times of quiet solitude, and in the words and deeds of wise Elders and friends.

If you have a chance to make life better for others and fail to do so, you are wasting your time on Earth. No matter what our station in life, we are here to serve, even if that sometimes means making the greatest sacrifice of all.

"A warrior is challanged to assume responsibility, practice humility, and display the power of giving, and then center his or her life around a core of spirituality. I challenge todays youth to live like a warrior." Billy Mills

Elder's Meditation of the Day - January 19 "Heal yourself-your physical and spiritual bodies. Regenerate yourself with light, and then help those who have poverty of the soul. Return to the inner spirit, which we have abandoned while looking elsewhere for happiness." --Willaru Huayta, QUECHUA NATION, PERU ***It is difficult to look inside ourselves, especially when we see conflict or confusion. During times of conflict we need to realize that we are talking to ourselves about our thoughts. This conversation is printing in our subconscious and forming our beliefs. During times of conflict we need to ask the spirit to control our self-talk. Only through finding that inner place and going there during troubled times will we ever find happiness.

Posted by: "Dave" ole_deer_hunter Fri Jan 19, 2007 1:26 am (PST)


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For all of us parents who have respect for the teaching profession….and the people who have the patience to teach our kids!!!

Cris

Click on Cris' name (above) to thank her for her respect for these people who teach our young... She has 3 beautiful children!

here is what she emailed me...

WHAT TEACHERS MAKE

(What do YOU make)???

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life. One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education. He argued, "What's a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?" He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach." To stress his point he said to another guest; "You're a teacher, Bonnie. Be honest What do you make?"


Bonnie, (who had a reputation for honesty and frankness), replied,

"You want to know what I make? (She paused for a second, then began...)
"Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.


I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor.


I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents can't make them sit for 5 without an I Pod, Game Cube or movie rental...

You want to know what I make?" (She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table.)

I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them criticize.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

I teach them to write and then I make them write.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math.

I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to know in English while preserving their unique cultural identity.

I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

I make my students stand to say the Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag, because we live in the United States of America.

Finally, I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.

(Bonnie paused one last time and then continued) "Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, I can hold my head up high and pay no attention because they are ignorant"...

You want to know what I make???

I MAKE A DIFFERENCE... ...(What do YOU make)?"


THERE IS MUCH TRUTH HERE: "Teachers make every other profession "

-----------------------

Are YOU a safe driver? Hows your driving common sense? CLICK HERE to find out!

Note, I took this test, I didn't get ANY wrong; yet just to keep me humble, it told me I had received 95%... (Go figure)!!!

-----------------

A little sidenote here before you read the following...

My dogs are NOT spoiled. (They just smell that way)!!! hehehe

This now, from Kashiyumekoinu...

"Dogs are never permitted in the house. The dog stays outside in a specially built wooden compartment named, for very good reason, the dog house.

Okay, the dog can enter the house but only for short visits or if his own house is under renovation.

Okay, the dog can stay in the house on a permanent basis provided his dog house can be sold in a lawn sale to a rookie dog owner.

Inside the house, the dog is not allowed to run free and is confined to a comfortable but secure metal cage.

Okay, the cage becomes part of a two-for-one deal in the lawn sale, and the dog can go wherever the hell he pleases.

The dog is never allowed on the furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the old furniture but not the new furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the new furniture until it looks like the old furniture and then we'll sell the whole works and buy new furniture on which the dog will most definitely not be allowed.

The dog never sleeps on the bed. Period.

Okay, the dog can sleep at the foot of the bed only.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, but he's not allowed under the covers.

Okay, the dog can sleep under the covers but not with his head on the pillow.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, under the covers with his head on the pillow, but if he snores, he's got to leave the room.

Okay, the dog can sleep and snore and have nightmares in your bed, but he's not to come in and sleep on the couch in the TV room, where you're now sleeping. That's just not fair.

The dog never gets listed on the census questionnaire as "primary resident" even if it's true.

This was stolen from Kashiyumekoinu's blog pages.. Please CLICK HERE for her site; and more about dogs-

She has many passions about these critters that we all should love--- (and many links to prove that THAT is NOT true in all cases). How awful is that?

and one of the comments left on that page too...

Visitors please note

1. The couch and armchair by the TV are for our own and sole use, although we do share with mummy for cuddle time. Kindly use 2nd armchair or sit on the floor. If proving uncomfortable or inconvenient, you may meet up with mummy at The Gallery (Local cafe)

2. Mummy's very busy fulfilling our every needs. Cuddle time (As and when we feel need/want it) Is a very private and special moment to us. You may remain in the room on the condition that you will not disrupt. You may watch TV (If it's on) Read a book (Kindly bring your own, mummy's books are for her own use) or fall asleep if you wish. Alternatively you may wish to go for a walk.

3. Raising your voice or making sudden moves is strictly not allowed.

4. Do not ask us to sit or lay down, do not ask us to be quiet. We live here, you don't

5. Many germs are spread by hand contact. We don't know what you've touched, whether your hands are clean or not. Consequently do not pat us. You may sniff our butt, that is as long as you do not have halitosis.

6. Guest room doesn't mean that the room is yours while you stay with us. It only means that you get to sleep on the bed. We reserve the right to inspect the room, your luggage and steal your socks if feeling like it.

7. When going walkies, kindly refrain from attempting to walk us on the leash, throw a ball or anything expecting us to play. We hate show offs.

8. You are not allowed near our treat box. Mummy and daddy give treats because we trust them. They fill it up after all. Any other human approaching our treat box will be considered a potential thief and treated accordingly.

9. Our bedroom is ours. We share with mummy and daddy only. Kindly refrain from entering our room.

10. Because we live in the countryside doesn't mean that our home is open 24/7 for humans wishing to enjoy a week end away. There are hotels/ Bed and breakfasts/ Camp sites for that purpose. Keep visits to minimum, and only by prior invitation.

11. Feel welcome to bring your own dog to visit. Cats strictly disallowed.

12. As a human mummy may feel obliged to be nice to you. This doesn't mean that she likes you, simply that she's being polite. We canines do not believe in hypocrisy. WE decide if we like YOU or not.

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.
~anonymous~
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OK enough of this all... I shall be back shortly with 'my own' thoughts~n~things!!!

XOXO
Anne

top picture courtesy of... http://www.miv.t.u-tokyo.ac.jp/icon/obj.html

RANDOM...

A few thoughts and things that have crossed my mind, entered my email, and found their way to various 360 sites too...

As you know, I rarely post thoughts/ideas that are not my own... Some of these are just way too clever not to share... Or perhaps way too thought~provoking... Or maybe even funny!

I will follow~up with "my own" blog shortly. In the meantime, please be kind, tolerant... and never ever be afraid to laugh out loud!

XOXO
Anne

Missy ANGEL on how to ask for friendship on the 360! CLICK HERE

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DeeAnne's wicked confession?!? CLICK HERE

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Native American Indian Traditional Code of Ethics
From "Inter-Tribal Times" October `1994

1. Each morning upon rising, and each evening before sleeping, give thanks for the life within you and for all life, for the good things the Creator has given you and for the opportunity to grow a little more each day. Consider your thoughts and actions of the past day and seek for the courage and strength to be a better person. Seek for the things that will benefit others (everyone).

2. Respect. Respect means "To feel or show honor or esteem for someone or something; to consider the well being of, or to treat someone or something with deference or courtesy". Showing respect is a basic law of life.

a. Treat every person from the tiniest child to the oldest elder with respect at all times.

b. Special respect should be given to Elders, Parents, Teachers, and Community Leaders.

c. No person should be made to feel "put down" by you. Avoid hurting other hearts as you would avoid a deadly poison.

d. Touch nothing that belongs to someone else (especially Sacred Objects) without permission, or an understanding between you.

e. Respect the privacy of every person, never intrude on a person's quiet moment or personal space.

f. Never walk between people that are conversing.

g. Never interrupt people who are conversing.

h. Speak in a soft voice, especially when you are in the presence of Elders, or strangers or others to whom special respect is due.

i. Do not speak unless invited to do so at gatherings where Elders are present. (except to ask what is expected of you, should you be in doubt).

j. Never speak about others in a negative way, whether they are present or not.

k. Treat the earth and all of her aspects as your mother. Show deep respect for the mineral world, the plant world, and the animal world. Do nothing to pollute our Mother, rise up with wisdom to defend her.

l. Show deep respect for the beliefs and religion of others.

m. Listen with courtesy to what others say, even if you feel that what they are saying is worthless. Listen with your heart.

n. Respect the wisdom of the people in council. Once you give an idea to a council meeting it no longer belongs to you. It belongs to the people. Respect demands that you listen intently to the ideas of others in council and that you do not insist that your idea prevail. Indeed you should freely support the ideas of others if they are true and good, even if those ideas are quite different from the ones you have contributed. The clash of ideas brings forth the Spark of Truth.

3. Once a council has decided something in unity, respect demands that no one speak secretly against what has been decided. If the council has made an error, that error will become apparent to everyone in its own time.

4. Be truthful at all times, and under all conditions.

5. Always treat your guests with honor and consideration. Give of your best food, your best blankets, the best part of your house, and your best service to your guests.

6. The hurt of one is the hurt of all, the honor of one is the honor of all.

7. Receive strangers and outsiders with a loving heart and as members of the human family.

8. All the races and tribes in the world are like the different colored flowers of one meadow. All are beautiful. As children of the Creator they must all be respected.

9. To serve others, to be of some use to family, community, nation, and the world is one of the main purposes for which human beings have been created. Do not fill yourself with your own affairs and forget your most important talks. True happiness comes only to those who dedicate their lives to the service of others.

10. Observe moderation and balance in all things.

11. Know those things that lead to your well-being and those things that lead to your destruction.

12. Listen to and follow the guidance given to your heart. Expect guidance to come in many forms; in prayer, in dreams, in times of quiet solitude, and in the words and deeds of wise Elders and friends.

If you have a chance to make life better for others and fail to do so, you are wasting your time on Earth. No matter what our station in life, we are here to serve, even if that sometimes means making the greatest sacrifice of all.

"A warrior is challanged to assume responsibility, practice humility, and display the power of giving, and then center his or her life around a core of spirituality. I challenge todays youth to live like a warrior." Billy Mills

Elder's Meditation of the Day - January 19 "Heal yourself-your physical and spiritual bodies. Regenerate yourself with light, and then help those who have poverty of the soul. Return to the inner spirit, which we have abandoned while looking elsewhere for happiness." --Willaru Huayta, QUECHUA NATION, PERU ***It is difficult to look inside ourselves, especially when we see conflict or confusion. During times of conflict we need to realize that we are talking to ourselves about our thoughts. This conversation is printing in our subconscious and forming our beliefs. During times of conflict we need to ask the spirit to control our self-talk. Only through finding that inner place and going there during troubled times will we ever find happiness.

Posted by: "Dave" ole_deer_hunter Fri Jan 19, 2007 1:26 am (PST)


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For all of us parents who have respect for the teaching profession….and the people who have the patience to teach our kids!!!

Cris

Click on Cris' name (above) to thank her for her respect for these people who teach our young... She has 3 beautiful children!

here is what she emailed me...

WHAT TEACHERS MAKE

(What do YOU make)???

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life. One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education. He argued, "What's a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?" He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach." To stress his point he said to another guest; "You're a teacher, Bonnie. Be honest What do you make?"


Bonnie, (who had a reputation for honesty and frankness), replied,

"You want to know what I make? (She paused for a second, then began...)
"Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.


I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor.


I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents can't make them sit for 5 without an I Pod, Game Cube or movie rental...

You want to know what I make?" (She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table.)

I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them criticize.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

I teach them to write and then I make them write.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math.

I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to know in English while preserving their unique cultural identity.

I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

I make my students stand to say the Pledge of Allegiance to the Flag, because we live in the United States of America.

Finally, I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.

(Bonnie paused one last time and then continued) "Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, I can hold my head up high and pay no attention because they are ignorant"...

You want to know what I make???

I MAKE A DIFFERENCE... ...(What do YOU make)?"


THERE IS MUCH TRUTH HERE: "Teachers make every other profession "

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Are YOU a safe driver? Hows your driving common sense? CLICK HERE to find out!

Note, I took this test, I didn't get ANY wrong; yet just to keep me humble, it told me I had received 95%... (Go figure)!!!

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A little sidenote here before you read the following...

My dogs are NOT spoiled. (They just smell that way)!!! hehehe

This now, from Kashiyumekoinu...

"Dogs are never permitted in the house. The dog stays outside in a specially built wooden compartment named, for very good reason, the dog house.

Okay, the dog can enter the house but only for short visits or if his own house is under renovation.

Okay, the dog can stay in the house on a permanent basis provided his dog house can be sold in a lawn sale to a rookie dog owner.

Inside the house, the dog is not allowed to run free and is confined to a comfortable but secure metal cage.

Okay, the cage becomes part of a two-for-one deal in the lawn sale, and the dog can go wherever the hell he pleases.

The dog is never allowed on the furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the old furniture but not the new furniture.

Okay, the dog can get up on the new furniture until it looks like the old furniture and then we'll sell the whole works and buy new furniture on which the dog will most definitely not be allowed.

The dog never sleeps on the bed. Period.

Okay, the dog can sleep at the foot of the bed only.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, but he's not allowed under the covers.

Okay, the dog can sleep under the covers but not with his head on the pillow.

Okay, the dog can sleep alongside you, under the covers with his head on the pillow, but if he snores, he's got to leave the room.

Okay, the dog can sleep and snore and have nightmares in your bed, but he's not to come in and sleep on the couch in the TV room, where you're now sleeping. That's just not fair.

The dog never gets listed on the census questionnaire as "primary resident" even if it's true.

This was stolen from Kashiyumekoinu's blog pages.. Please CLICK HERE for her site; and more about dogs-

She has many passions about these critters that we all should love--- (and many links to prove that THAT is NOT true in all cases). How awful is that?

and one of the comments left on that page too...

Visitors please note

1. The couch and armchair by the TV are for our own and sole use, although we do share with mummy for cuddle time. Kindly use 2nd armchair or sit on the floor. If proving uncomfortable or inconvenient, you may meet up with mummy at The Gallery (Local cafe)

2. Mummy's very busy fulfilling our every needs. Cuddle time (As and when we feel need/want it) Is a very private and special moment to us. You may remain in the room on the condition that you will not disrupt. You may watch TV (If it's on) Read a book (Kindly bring your own, mummy's books are for her own use) or fall asleep if you wish. Alternatively you may wish to go for a walk.

3. Raising your voice or making sudden moves is strictly not allowed.

4. Do not ask us to sit or lay down, do not ask us to be quiet. We live here, you don't

5. Many germs are spread by hand contact. We don't know what you've touched, whether your hands are clean or not. Consequently do not pat us. You may sniff our butt, that is as long as you do not have halitosis.

6. Guest room doesn't mean that the room is yours while you stay with us. It only means that you get to sleep on the bed. We reserve the right to inspect the room, your luggage and steal your socks if feeling like it.

7. When going walkies, kindly refrain from attempting to walk us on the leash, throw a ball or anything expecting us to play. We hate show offs.

8. You are not allowed near our treat box. Mummy and daddy give treats because we trust them. They fill it up after all. Any other human approaching our treat box will be considered a potential thief and treated accordingly.

9. Our bedroom is ours. We share with mummy and daddy only. Kindly refrain from entering our room.

10. Because we live in the countryside doesn't mean that our home is open 24/7 for humans wishing to enjoy a week end away. There are hotels/ Bed and breakfasts/ Camp sites for that purpose. Keep visits to minimum, and only by prior invitation.

11. Feel welcome to bring your own dog to visit. Cats strictly disallowed.

12. As a human mummy may feel obliged to be nice to you. This doesn't mean that she likes you, simply that she's being polite. We canines do not believe in hypocrisy. WE decide if we like YOU or not.

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.
~anonymous~
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OK enough of this all... I shall be back shortly with 'my own' thoughts~n~things!!!

XOXO
Anne

top picture courtesy of... http://www.miv.t.u-tokyo.ac.jp/icon/obj.html