[My] Life in Wisconsin

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The Bee and The Woodpecker

 

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I have not heard from the State of Wisconsin.
(But I do know that everyone answers to someone).
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Good Morning All;

This Chinese proverb showed up on my screen earlier:
Words whispered on Earth are heard in Heaven like thunder; evil done in dark places the gods see like lightning.


I spent an awful lot of time downtown yesterday. Going to each police station (city and county).
Then in a last ditch effort, to go back to the courthouse and leave the info on the Registered Sex Offender with the judge/family court commissioner.
I also left him a little note.

I haven't heard back from ANYone.
Should I have expected to?
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Cnv0218 by you.

Curious now...

If I didn't see where the bee went,
Does that mean he doesn't have a nest?
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Cnv0233 by you.
If I didn't catch the woodpecker that did this,
Then maybe there isn't really a hole in my house?
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Because if I, (yes, I said "I"), can't prove that this person actually resides at a different address, then he must not.
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Cnv0010 by you.
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To carry on with that convoluted line of thought...

If I don't see Gabriel being hurt or harmed in any way...
Then he must not ever be hurt or harmed in any way.

Ya think?

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And that's the gospel according to what I know today.

Do not think for one moment that this is over.
I promise, it has only just begun.
Wait...
"Promise" or "threat"?
Guess that depends on who is reading this.

For now, I must now go in search of the bee and the woodpecker...

Have a day.


My name is Anne, and I approve this message.


 
Originally posted to my Y! 360, Wednesday September 17, 2008 - 09:17am (CDT)

Red Flags; Intuition, and A Registered Sex Offender

 

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The picture speaks for itself...

With a warning before you read:

Red flags, migraines, and anxiety makes me swear.

A lot.

(If you are easily offended, leave now).
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Good Early Morning;
I can't sleep.
My head is throbbing, and my stomach feels as though it is ripped from my throat.

As I am sitting here, gathering my thoughts, it occurred to me that I was more than a bit chilled. I threw on a blanket... Then finally have turned the thermostat back up to 67.

Still chilled, but the smell of reigniting the furnace is gone now. That new 'burn' smell always bothers me as it burns that bit of dust off the system.

Punk came and laid between my cold feet and the register.
Sassy dog.
Next time she will lay ON my feet, or get shooed away.
 
Back to Master Gabriel...
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Cnv0086 by you.
Picture taken last Monday...
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Cnv0221 by you.
This one, taken on Sunday, 09/14/08-
As he helped me pick some veggies from the field;
trying not to get lost~
(those weeds left behind by the field hands).

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We went to court again on Gabriel's behalf yesterday.
Roberta has now received the formal complaint against her. She also decided to have her 'new' boyfriend accompany her to court. (A completely inappropriate appearance as far as I am concerned).

But wait... What if anything, of Berta's parenting skilss are appropriate of late?

In the complaint, she admitted to using marijuana for the last 6 months of her pregnancy! What effect this will have on our Sam remains to be seen...
 

Intuition?
~I absolutely KNEW there was a reason, way beyond me being concerned about Berta calling the cops on me...

ALWAYS listen to your guts!
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Not that the intake worker gave a good damn, but Casey did inform her before we went into the courtroom that this guy is a "Registered Sex Offender".

Did it make the case worker then take note?
Nope.

Did she spare a few seconds to even inform the judge?
Nope.

CLICK HERE for the Wisconsin Sex Offender Website.
(Enter "Michael A. Turner" if you want to know more).
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Michael Turner

Photo from Wisconsin DOC.


The charge that he was found guilty of and spent years in prison for?
948.02(2) (Second degree sexual assault of a child).

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During the hearing, it was found that Roberta could pick up Gabriel on her own, and NOT have supervised visitation.

I am SICKENED (and stunned) with this new recommendation.
As Casey was too...

(Mostly though, afraid that Gabriel will be either harmed; or simply disappear on us during one of these visits).

We left that hearing, (Casey and I), came back here, grabbed a few papers that I printed up from the website for verification- and brought them to the caseworkers office.

She wasn't "IN" at this point, but the receptionist DID stamp the papers as "received"





Then over to the States office building, where we met with Turners case manager. As it stands, there seems to be a conflict with his registered address.
His address for the DOC is one place. The address that he lives at is another, miles away.
(And need I mention that he is too very close to a park/playground AND two schools)???


This worker, though pleasant and caring, really did not seem too troubled with hearing this.

She told us to find out the owners name of the house they are living in, and go from there.
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I guess there really is no one that is truly concerned with this information.
We have all been led, by this FALSE SENSE OF SECURITY, that we know where these convicts live.

Word to the wise:
DO NOT EVER BELIEVE THAT YOU KNOW WHERE SEX OFFENDERS LIVE.
Sick, ain't it?
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I also went to this site. CLICK HERE. And found out that he has quite a record with the State of Wisconsin; although I saw no drug charges.
(Again, enter "Michael A. Turner" if you want to know more).
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  • Where the hell does Roberta find these perverts?
  • What the hell makes them (or herself) so attractive?
  • And what in the EFFING hell is she even thinking in the first place?

The state worker said Turner had just been in, and yes Roberta was with him.
So Roberta does know about his record. ~WTFH?
Is your own head spinning yet???

Casey and I made tracks to the other side of town then; giving the temporary foster family a copy of his file from the DOC.
(Not sure what opportunities for denial of visitation this will give them, if any, but at least now they know too).

Trust me on this...
If anything bad happens to Gabriel, or if he gets 'lost', some heads will roll.

And I will start right at the State level, then CPS, Social Services.
Then the court commissioner, and work my way down.

Today then, I shall make sure that the city police and the sheriffs department are also given these papers with the conflicting addresses for this guy.
(I have to go to both because this guy lives in the city, but his address with the DOC is out of town).

Oh, and have you ever wondered how the state keeps track?

Q. How do they verify where sex offenders live?
A.They send out a letter, and the perv simply has to reply to that.

Then I shall have to find out who Gabriel's GAL is, and to ensure that he also has copies of this all.

My anxiety minds bigtime.
So very hard to function with all of that.
That, and the fact that I have had a major headache for a couple of days now.
Comes and goes.
Needs a shot, but no 'how' to get that in...

It is SO hard to be doing all of this running around when a simple phone call, (and a double check on their own damned computers), would verify all of this.

And if it wasn't for Gabriel's safety I would NOT be doing everyone elses job for them either.

***Wouldn't you think that all of this would upset someone (besides myself and Casey); and that there would actually BE someone who gives a sh*t about it all???

Sadly, if you thought that, you would be wrong.

Any lawyers out there?
Somebody PLEASE give me a leg to stand on.



For now I am going to try to rest a bit-
These damned pills are clearly not working.

Love to all.

XOXO
Anne

 
Originally posted to my Y! 360, Tuesday September 16, 2008 - 05:44am (CDT)

You Maybe Saw It Coming... Didn't You?








Good Morning.

Or is it?

...Deep breath...

ROBERTA and GABRIEL...

Roberta works as a waitress/hostess at a little restaurant in Green Bay.
She has even finally arranged to have Gabriel at a child care facility.

Sounds good, no?

Problem is, she has placed him there from 4pm til midnight. (She doesn't even WORK these hours).
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The state of Wisconsin has finally stepped up to the plate, and has taken Master Gabriel into their custody.
I believe they will be checking into Sams 'home' too; although I wish to go on record that Marie and Chuck are taking real good care of him. No worries.

For now, (and God knows how long), Gabriel is in a foster home, not too far away from here.
~They have 2 preschoolers for him to socialize with.
~They also have 2 school age children, that they have adopted out of the system.
Their own babies have long since graduated from high school.

(God bless this family)!

Roberta, (IF she can be located) must be in court tomorrow afternoon.

~She must prove her income.
~More importantly, she must prove that Gabriel has a safe place to sleep, eat, grow, etc if he lives with her.
~She must prove that she has bought him clothes and diapers.
(Her food is on the States pay as Food Stamps)

I have all those clothing, diapers and Pull-ups (and other necessities), receipts in my possession and on my credit card, simply because I have been loving and supporting this child forever.

Casey and I will be in court also.

Gabriel had been here again, since Saturday.
Apparently Roberta did not come home to Gabriel-
And when she did, was quite drunk, (God knows what else).

On Saturday she moved in with the dishwasher from her work.
(Also apparently a drug dealer). Will have to do some checking online about this guy yet...

Casey drove to town to pick Roberta and Gabriel up.
~He was filthy dirty; wore soiled/wet pull ups.
~He was clearly overtired, and over hungry.
~Not wanting to even eat but a few crumbs, he slept from 4 that afternoon until I woke him at 8 on Sunday morning!

Back to Saturday, Roberta walked in here after being thrown out of still another guys place.
After talking to her, (seeing her inability to even keep her eyes open), I told her Gabriel could stay anytime, but she could not.
(I really cannot have her/lifestyle in my home).

I told her that I do not care who, or how many, men she sleeps with; nor how many diseases she spreads around.

And said I no longer cared how many or what kind of drugs she takes.

Nor do I care how much alcohol she thinks she can drink.

I also told her that "as long as I draw breath I will fight to keep her from bringing Gabriel down with her."

She brought in a few armfuls of clothes, dumped them in the bathroom; and stated that Gabriel has a doctor appointment scheduled for October first.
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She then signed over custody (albeit temporary) to me.
Casey then drove her back to Green Bay.

Please pray a few words for my Little Master Gabriel.

~I have lost both of my parents.
~I have been divorced twice.
Believe me when I say this is the hardest thing I have ever been through.

Sadly I also believe it is a LONG way from finished...
William called last night too- he believes this will open many doors for me.
Time will only tell.

Love to all.

XOXO
Anne
 

How Would YOU Deal?

Good Morning;
I am sickened...
Know that I have added another 2 'blocks' within my contacts...

Gabriel and I will be leaving soon...
And I just wanted to let you know w
hat I have been reading this morning, (and every chance I have had since Friday).
Just a few links for you...

Here's one.  CLICK HERE

And another. CLICK HERE

Still another. CLICK HERE

Are you disgusted yet?

Try this one. CLICK HERE.

As always, this is America.
You are then free to draw your own conclusions.

My own thoughts are "HOW FRICKIN' DAMN DARE YOU!?!"

...And I just cannot get past that.


XOXO
Anne