[My] Life in Wisconsin

Showing posts with label murder. Show all posts
Showing posts with label murder. Show all posts

In Praise of Karma



Good Morning All;
Karma is generally uniquely defined as 'what comes around, goes around.' (True definition below).

I am so happy to report that sometimes to our disapproval, karma takes its good old~fashioned time getting around.
Sometimes it doesn't happen until we are gone. Sometimes it never does.

Randall Staevens was sentenced to life plus 36.5 years in prison Wednesday for killing his wife and trying to burn down her house with three of their children inside. (Click on 'murder' in my tags if you are unfamiliar with this case- too close for comfort). The best quote came from the judge. "Mr. Staeven, the offenses that you have been found guilty of in this matter are some of the most grave, malicious, hatefully and shockingly heinous that has ever been in this court"

Personally I am thrilled beyond words. A part of my spirit is not only relieved, but comforted- knowing that "LIFE + 36 Years" means something good for those of us who knew this piece~of~shit person; and especially for his children- (Any children who may have been around him, or somehow affected by him).

Not too much other news-

Hope all is well in your corners of the world!

My love to all.

XOXO
Me

Staevens picture from here

Karma [ˈkɑːmə]n
1. (Non-Christian Religions / Hinduism) Hinduism Buddhism the principle of retributive justice determining a person's state of life and the state of his reincarnations as the effect of his past deeds
2. (Christian Religious Writings / Theology) Theosophy the doctrine of inevitable consequence
3. destiny or fate


Say "YAY!" ~~ **Staeven found guilty


http://www.greenbaypressgazette.com/article/20110826/GPG0101/110826092/Randall-Staeven-found-guilty-2009-death-estranged-wife-Christine
Randall Staeven found guilty in 2009 death of estranged wife, Christine | Green Bay Press Gazette | greenbaypressgazette.com

Do the click above- This creep has been found guilty on ALL counts!

Good Morning All;
Friend Chris called me mid-afternoon yesterday; just as the 'news' came over the wire...
Chris has always been such a good friend to our family- Ever since we bought his family's home. A dear dear man. He also commented that he was glad that WI has no death penalty; better for him to rot away in prison and think about what he has become.

I just say there is a God who ensures that bad things happen to bad people too.
Whoo~Hoo!!!!

Not only was/is the 26th my daughter Jennifer's birthday, it is also Staevens birthday.
Yes, I called Jennifer first! She was celebrating in San Antonio!

XOXO
Me

Staeven may not have gotten what he wanted for his birthday, but he surely got what he deserved.



More on Murder



Randy Staeven
photo by H. Marc. Larsen of GB Press Gazette


Good Morning All;
Here are the continuing articles in my ex-next door neighbor's murder trial.
The jury was picked last Friday. His trial has been ongoing, and should be done with tomorrow.

XOXO
Me


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Yesterday's article, from here:

OCONTO —
Randall Staeven frequently was violent and abusive toward his family, once setting fire to his children's toys because they had not been cleaned up, according to testimony Tuesday from his teenage daughter and stepson.

Staeven — on trial this week in Oconto County Circuit Court for first-degree homicide, arson, mutilating a corpse and reckless endangerment of children — called his 13-year-old daughter "a pig" when she had bathroom accidents as a young girl, according to her testimony.

His 16-year-old stepson said he and his mother, Christine Staeven, fled many times to escape the defendant's violent outbursts, only to return home later.

"I honestly don't know why we kept going back," the stepson testified, "but we did."

Staeven, 51, faces life in prison on charges he killed Christine Staeven, 40, in May 2009 and set the family's town of Chase home on fire to conceal the crime.

Prosecutors are scheduled to continue presenting their case today in a trial that is expected to continue all week at the Oconto County Courthouse.

About a dozen witnesses provided more than seven hours of testimony Tuesday, including neighbors who reported seeing or hearing strange things around the Staeven house on the day of Christine Staeven's death.

Neighbor Tim Saindon told jurors he saw Randall Staeven driving from the scene at about 4 a.m., down a road that is seldom traveled.

"I knew who it was right away," Saindon said. "There's no doubt in my mind who I saw."

A forensic pathologist, Mark Witeck, testified that Christine Staeven's body was too badly damaged by the fire to pinpoint a cause of death.

Witeck, however, said he was certain that her death was a homicide.

Defense attorney Jeff Jazgar questioned the pathologist about an anti-depressant found in Christine Staeven's body in what the attorney called "awfully high" amounts.

Other family members and acquaintances described a rocky marriage between the Staevens, who were in the midst of a divorce when Christine died. Some said they had heard the defendant say he wished his estranged wife were dead.

However, one witness for the prosecution turned hostile.

Scott Heitzke, a nephew of Randall Staeven's, said his uncle was understandably upset about the impending divorce when he said he wished Christine was dead and that the house was burned down.

Heitzke then questioned the accuracy of some police reports and told jurors he personally had been threatened by police officers to cooperate with the investigation or face reprisals.

The nephew said he agreed to wear a listening device and gather information from Randall Staeven for investigators after the alleged threats.

"They told me I should go along or I could get my Social Security taken away and go to prison," he said. "I felt like I had no choices."

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And Today's article, (which is the top posted link):

— An Oconto County jury Wednesday heard Randall Staeven's own words about his family's money trouble, his marital counseling sessions and his belief that his wife was having an affair.

Staeven, 51, is on trial this week for allegedly killing his estranged wife, Christine Staeven, in May 2009 and for allegedly attempting to cover up the crime by torching their town of Chase home while their three children were inside. The children, now 13, 9 and 5, escaped unharmed.

Randall Staeven didn't testify Wednesday, but large parts of his testimony at a previous hearing were read to the jury.

Staeven had testified in July 2010 at a secret John Doe hearing, a procedure that allows prosecutors to put people under oath as a way to investigate a possible crime.

Special prosecutor Vincent Biskupic posed questions that had been posed to Staeven at that hearing, while special agent Michael Rindt of the state Division of Criminal Investigation read back the answers Staeven had given.

In his testimony, Staeven denied being physically abusive to his wife and children. He said he was angry about the bills the family generated and said he and Christine consolidated their debt and filed bankruptcy in an effort to get out from under it.

He denied being particularly upset when he learned that Christine had become involved in a relationship with another man while the couple were separated a few months before Christine's death.

Asked whether he found it upsetting that Christine had plans to marry someone after the divorce, Randall Staeven answered, "Not much."

He claimed it was just coincidence — not stalking — that he spotted her car at 4:30 a.m. one day during their separation, when he suspected she was visiting a boyfriend instead of watching their children.

"Are you typically up at 4 a.m. and on the road?" was the question Biskupic put to him at the hearing.

"No, not typically, no," Staeven answered.

Staeven characterized their relationship as being pretty good in January 2009 when Christine suddenly announced she wanted him out of the house.

Previous testimony in the trial indicated a pattern of verbal and physical abuse during the couple's 10-year marriage and even before.

"He needed to know every place I went, always wanted to be in control of me," said Sue Paulick, 49, who dated Staeven in the 1980s, lived with him in De Pere and had a child with him.

Paulick said she ended their relationship 10 or 15 times because of his abusiveness.

Diane Stachura* of Abrams testified she lived with Staeven in the home he bought at 740 Jaworski Road in the town of Chase in the early 1990s.

She said their relationship went well for the first few years but then Staeven started getting abusive. He threw things at her, gave her a black eye and pulled phones out of the wall to prevent her from calling police, she said.

Christine Staeven's mother, Connie Heling, testified earlier this week that her daughter obtained a restraining order and later divorce papers because she "couldn't handle the anger and the violence."

Jurors Wednesday also heard from Kathleen McWilliams, who ran a day-care business out of her home and baby-sat the Staevens' children in the years preceding Christine Staeven's death. McWilliams also helped the couple balance their checkbook.

McWilliams said Staeven frequently became enraged over money matters, such as when his child support increased. Christine Staeven had a china doll collection and occasionally overdrew on the family checkbook when buying clothes for the dolls, and that sent Staeven into a rage, McWilliams said.

One time, he became so angry, he flipped a table over and called her names, McWilliams said.

Christine Staeven twice told her that Staeven forced himself on her sexually, including one time when he wrapped a T-shirt around her neck and twisted it to cut off her air flow, McWilliams said.

Christine Staeven made several attempts to leave Staeven but returned to him several times, McWilliams said.

Michael Stier, associate professor of forensic pathology at the University of Wisconsin, testified that Christine Staeven died of homicide by undetermined means.

He said it was a fairly new classification of death but one that was accepted by experts in the field of forensic pathology. He said Christine Staeven's body showed no sign of carbon monoxide or soot, which indicated she was not breathing at the time the fire started.

Stier indicated there was a presence of an anti-depressant drug in her blood but not of a dosage significantly high enough to have been a contributing factor in her death.

The trial is expected to run through Friday.

Randall Staeven is charged with first-degree homicide, arson, mutilating a corpse and reckless endangerment of children.
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Dianne Stachura, (Buffington), is the mean woman that lived there for most of the time.
He married Christine later, after Chris had moved in with him.

As I had written on my Facebook page:

Oh Boo~Hoo you gross bastard!
(It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out).
I lived, raised my babies, next door to this effing animal!
I hated him then. I hate him now.

Methinks the foul River Styx flows straight to hell... Just for him.

XOXO
Me


Jennifer, and Jaworski Road


The old stanchions-


Good Morning!

It is Jennifer Hope's birthday today. She is my 2nd eldest, and lives in Texas.
At 32 now, she has 2 beautiful babies, and one husband. hehehe (Works best that way).

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENNIFER!

That's a whole lot of candles ya know~
Have an extinguisher handy.  hehehe  Just sayin'...

What?!?!

Isaiah as Popeye! hehehe

My mom is HOW old?     hehehehehehehe


Here is Isaiah on his first day of school!


Isaiah



And here is Isaiah and Wyatt...

Isaiah and Wyatt
No, really!
Look very closely, you can see Wyatt's hair at the bottom of the picture.
He had fallen down before the shutter snapped. hehehe


But what an angel too!!!

Wyatt 8-18-2010
With his own little orb! And isn't he just as gorgeous as his big brother?!


I see that Mother Nature has given Jenné temps below 100° (F) for her birthday! They supposedly are to remain there for the next few days also.

Weather?  I thought it pretty neat that The Old Farmers Almanac came out with a long range forecast map for the whole country.  (However due to their September forecast, I no longer much care for The Old Farmers Almanac). hehehe

SEPTEMBER 2010 (for my area): temperature 52° (6° below avg.); precipitation 4.5" (1.5" above avg.);
Sep 1-3: Sunny, cool;
Sep 4-15: Rainy episodes, cool;
Sep 16-20: Rain and snow showers, cool;
Sep 21-28: Rain, then sunny, cool;
Sep 29-30: Rain, mild.

Oh well. Such is the changing of the seasons.
But I am not shoveling snow in September! (I don't much care to even do that in October for Pete's sake).
As long as it brings us football season, I will try not to complain too much.

My back has been particularly wretched once again.
Not sure what I am doing, or not doing; but it sucks for me.  I have had Casey lace and adjust my brace as tight as it goes, and still it is awful. 
Not a lot of sleep. Not a lot of anything- just 'busy' work around here.

Lawns are done for a little while, at best. They really need the blades on the mower dropped all the way down, and soon too. But apples and pears need to be removed first.

Christmas *sigh*, (and hopefully that means Springtime too) will not be far off.
I need to keep my sewing machine fired up, but for anyone contemplating gift purchases online, this site lists a ton of popular stores that will ship free IF you have their free shipping code.
Codes can be found here. (You can thank me for the link by sending a gift)! hehehe

Gifts?
I have decided that I would LOVE a copy of the New Oxford American Dictionary!  It has over 2,000 new words and phrases, including "vuvuzela," "microblogging," "staycation" and "turducken" ...
New definitions, new entries, new subordinate entries, the list goes on...
Just dreaming.

Waking up now, and regarding my recent "People are Different" blog:  I rest my case Mz. Doubtfire.  If you wish to hold hatred in your heart for "the least of your brothers", for WHATEVER reason, that is your choice to make.
For everyone else, an apt quote from my top page this morning:
"Enthusiasm is contagious. Be a carrier." S. Rabin

Incidentally, if anyone missed my own point of view, hatred is not my choice. Though admittedly, there are a few people I could live happily without, I do not hate people. (Nor am I that freakin' paranoid)! hehehe

Politically speaking- I have noticed that the Republican ads on TV seem to all reiterate the conservative angle. "I am a conservative." Or, "I am running for the conservative party." 
Newsflash people, we really DO know that republican is conservative, and vice~versa.  (And we really CAN read the fine print at the bottom of your ads that say, "paid for by the republican party").
The American voters are not that dumb!
For those that are that basically choosing to be mentally deficient or challenged,  ignorant people will elect dark candidates.
You cannot 'tidy up' the ugly party by painting it a new color.
     After all, "a rose by any other name..."


Back to Flintville... happily-

Kelli and I had gone in search of Chris Jaworski for horse hay.
He was not at home.

Somebody once said, "you can't go home again."   I beg to differ.
See, Chris was at home. (My old home that is). hehehe
I had spotted his car as we drove past-


Home on Jaworski


Closer up-

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And in the barn-

Kelli, and Chris Jaworski, in the barn
No he is not holding it up! hehehe


And walking toward the very first home built on the property...

The ORIGINAL 2 room house on the property


My pictures didn't turn out well at all because the sun was near to setting as I took them.
My apologies. We will have to go back at sunrise or high noon.


All the trees you see below I planted! The girls and I carried buckets and buckets of rainwater out there the first two years too.
Most lived too!

Birch and Mulberry
Birch and Mulberry
I actually stole handfuls of mulberries off the trees when I walked back there! Mmmm...

Colorado blue spruce.

Mom had given us 4 Blue Spruce when we moved in. (One for each of my girls).


Blue spruce
Only this one survived.


Then there's the zillion red cedars.
Prickly things- Rabbits LOVE to hide in them!

Row of Red Cedars
Planted as a windbreak, to the NE of the house



All the trees you see, I planted
Notice the fence between the 2 homes, effectively cutting off [some] problems with the neighbors from hell.
Chris informed us that our killer neighbor goes back to court on September 1st.
(I hope they throw the book at him).

Nuff said.  Besides, my eyes are crossed from reading, and thinking, and....

Have a 'wunnaful' day!

XOXO
Me

Old Dogs, Murderers, and Keeping Up With Pond Scum.

     Our "Homey" Dog!



Good Evening-
After a long, hot and humid day, I am thinking of this?


What I read:  (from HERE).

Staeven 
To even see this picture literally makes my skin crawl.
Photo taken by H. Marc. Larsen

OCONTO — In the months before his estranged wife's death, Randall Staeven routinely called his children "pigs," smashed a stool into the front of a stove, smacked the family cat with the back of his hand and had one child so frightened of him that she would hide in the basement when she was home alone with him, according to documents filed with the Oconto County clerk of courts office.

"The dogs shake when he is around them," Christine Staeven wrote when filing for one of two court injunctions she sought against him.

"He goes from spanking the kids and slams his fists together when we are arguing and I am afraid of what he will do," she wrote to the court in January 2009. "I don't know how far he will go."

Four months later, Christine Staeven, 40, was dead and her house set afire. Their 11-year-old daughter helped her brothers, ages 7 and 3, escape to safety.

Randall Staeven, 50, of Pulaski is charged with first-degree murder, arson, mutilating a corpse and three counts of first-degree reckless endangerment.

He made his initial appearance Friday before Oconto County Judge Michael Judge, who set bond at $750,000. Staeven did not have a lawyer, so Judge scheduled a continuance for Thursday.

As special prosecutor Vince Biskupic read the charges aloud, Staeven listened with his head down, his shoulders heaving slightly as he breathed.

Judge ordered the usual no-contact provisions as part of the bond, but at Biskupic's request, he also imposed the same order even if Staeven doesn't post bond: no contact with children or any of the witnesses named in the five-page criminal complaint.

Staeven, who appeared in court in jeans, a T-shirt, handcuffs and leg shackles, declined to argue the bond amount, saying, "No, I don't have an attorney. I won't say anything."

In January 2009, Christine Staeven twice filed injunctions against her husband. She withdrew the first, saying they were getting help for their problems. The second, which she filed about two weeks later, was dismissed at Randall Staeven's request a week after his wife's death.

The final months of her life weren't the only time the couple had problems in their 10-year marriage, according to court documents. She had filed for divorce from him twice, once in 2006 and again in 2009. She withdrew the 2006 action; the 2009 action was still in the court system at the time of her death.

In 2002, Randall Staeven was charged with disorderly conduct after throwing and breaking household items, hitting his wife three times in the head and tearing the phones off the wall so she couldn't call the police, according to a criminal complaint filed in the case.

He pleaded no contest in the case, but the court accepted a deferred prosecution agreement that required him to undergo anger management classes for a year.

Investigators say the fire to their home at 740 Jaworski Road in the town of Chase on May 14, 2009, had started in three separate places, indicating it was intentional. Christine Staeven had no trace of soot in her lungs, indicating she was dead before the fire was set, but her body was so badly burned that signs of injury would have been destroyed, the criminal complaint said.

A witness reported seeing Randall Staeven's SUV leaving the scene about an hour before the fire was discovered. Two witnesses — including Randall Staeven's nephew — reported that Staeven told them four days before the fire that he would rather see his wife dead and the house burned down before losing the house to her in the divorce.

Despite those witness statements, state and Oconto County investigators proceeded slowly and convened a John Doe hearing to gather evidence in the case. John Doe hearings, usually conducted in secret, allow investigators to question witnesses under oath in the presence of a judge. This hearing was conducted as recently as two weeks ago, according to the criminal complaint.

Neither Biskupic nor Oconto County Sheriff's Department investigator Darren Laskowski would comment Friday on the length of the investigation.

Biskupic said he was concerned about giving out too much information and then making it difficult to find an impartial jury.

Biskupic, former U.S. attorney who is in private practice in Appleton, said he is serving as special prosecutor because the county's district attorney, Jay Conley, has been elected circuit court judge and takes on his new duties next week.

Still another article: (from HERE)- states the following.
"Randall Staeven is charged with first-degree intentional homicide, arson and mutilating a corpse and three counts of first-degree reckless endangerment.

Oconto County Judge Michael Judge set Staeven’s bond at $750,000. Staeven also is prohibited from having any contact with relatives and witnesses named in the criminal complaint filed against him."

What I know:

1.
Randy Staevens killed our dog, Homey. He was my daughter Jenne's first dog, and her very best friend. Homey was a bright and wonderful dog. Once he had even brought in our cat which had been hit by a car. I was in the kitchen baking bread and noticed him coming up the driveway with 'something' in his mouth...
Suffering terribly, this dog lay down next to TC after laying her near his kennel. Ultimately Jim Stachura (a wonderful neighbor) was called and quickly came to put TC out of her misery.
Hell, almost everyone out in the boonies of Pulaski are wonderful neighbors.  I made many lifelong friends there, and keep in touch with them all.


2.
Jay Connelly should never have been put in as a judge.
He is a narrow~minded and easily bought prosecutor at best.
When my daughter Roberta was raped and almost bled to death, he would not even charge the man responsible. Claiming the word "rape" was not even in the the police filed statements.
It was. As a matter of fact, it was stated quite clearly in the very first paragraph.
I pointed this out to him and he shrugged. Said perp had tons of money... (And we ALL know how that goes). I paid over 3 grand, even with insurance, for the lifesaving surgery she needed. She almost bled out in my car.

3.
If you read the comments on either of the stories from the Green Bay Press Gazette articles you will see some 'grandma' person writing and proclaiming poor Staeven's innocence. "So there fore I believe that Randy is innocent and I personally know him myself and he is nothing like a monster..."
She is a rude and obnoxious woman who claims he was framed. (The mere thought of it boggles my mind)!


4.
Also referred to in the comments here is a statement from one of his coworkers, regarding his other half, one Diane Buffington.  She lived with Staevens while we lived on Jaworski Rd.
She is a lying, cheating, violent (and miserable) person as well.
We had many problems with this 'couple'.
Surely they belonged together- Just not across the driveway from my family and myself!
This commenter believes that Diane just knew how to push his buttons.
Really? I call BS. and think of 'birds of a feather'
Something I taught my children of morals and self, "No one can make you do anything you do not want to."
I am left wondering whose buttons Dianne was pushing when she went after Jennifer, (12 or 14 at the time) and started beating her and slapping her?
...maybe she was just having a bad hair day.
Diane also threw a very large rock at my eldest daughter's leg. Zoe was on crutches at the time, and had a walking boot type cast on her fractured foot- (13 or 14 then). I had been changing out the gear housing on my old Simplicity and had came around the corner to see this happen. I  would have knocked her stupid had she not retreated to her house upon seeing me. Coward!

5.

Randy thought it quite entertaining when my then husband, Dennis, knocked on his door holding 3 broken arrows he had collected and confiscated them from Diane's kids- Dennis had broken them in pieces so these boys could not fire them at Homey anymore.
Of course, no one did anything...
I can only imagine how these boys ultimately turned out... I do not remember their names otherwise I would check the Wisconsin Court Search record.
But we do know that murderers begin, usually, with killing defenseless animals


6.
The "good old boy" network still is alive and flourishing in Oconto County. I can only hope and pray that Staevens gets put away for good, and rots in his own shit until God can figure out what to do with him.

7.

About one of the good old boys comes the attached letter I wrote. (There will be others receiving similar letters, including the deputies who showed up and did nothing time after time after time).
For those men- (And yes, they were ALL men), who listened, shrugged, snickered, and went on their merry way- preferring to look the other way...


My apologies that this was/is so long...
Congratulations if you read every word and clicked the articles and document too!
Know that there is much, still, to get off my chest here, so bear with me.

XOXO
Me


Karma- (and The Gender of the Clot)!

Full Moon...

Good Evening All;
Just 2 short things...
First of all, the very good news.
They have FINALLY arrested the man responsible for Christine Staevens murder.  (CLICK for story).

Hopefully karma will be a bitch for him.
Some of you may remember that I lived across the damned driveway from this man for more than a few years. Now I can share all those awful stories with you, without worrying about my health, home, or longevity... 
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* Also know if you click on the "murder" tag on my blogs you will see more of the whole story, and my relationship with these degenerates-


Finally, before I go to bed (and totally feel sorry for myself while I nurse my own damned raunchy head), I had an appointment today with the PM doc.
She made a few phone calls after seeing me and wrote me a referral to the hospital.
... Seems I should be worried about that blood clot in my leg?! Ya think?
I was to go there on the way home--- and for what?  For an ultrasound!
(I do not care if my clot is male or female for Pete's sake)! hehehe  And then I would wait around for them to give me yet another prescription for some more chemicals to put in my body? I don't think so!
I am tired of this all. So tired.
So I came home and broke the Cub Cadet. Yes,
I tried mowing lawns (again) today- Took a few swipes, put the 'new' belt on twice, and then the damn motor died too. (To hell with it).  I left it right where it died. It can stay there forever for all I effin' care.

I took two aspirin.
... And will see you in the morning
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Love to all

XOXO
Me

Things Are Not Always What They Seem

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Sputty, protesting the windows being open all night.
I did not tuck the poor thing in either,
I don't have to, he does this all by himself.
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Good Evening;
Like a wee baby, I seem to have my days and nights all mixed up.
I awoke at 10~ish last night, and stayed up. I did nap for 2 hours this afternoon, so perhaps I can get this day/night thing back to 'normal'. hehehe (I hate using that word because I never know what 'n0rm
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520 Punk Orbs
Punk, followed by a few orbs,
as we played on the back lawn
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I left all my windows open last night in the hopes that maybe I could keep it cooler inside today. I closed them about 6 this morning as the temperatures began to rise. I believe our high here was 84 or 85. Talk about a shock! Tomorrow is to be decent though- and again they have promised a bit of rain.

Hard to believe we need it, especially when the disk is 4" deep in mud in some parts of the field. This postpones planting these 20 acres 'til when?
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Casey came out today, and after a bit of walking around in search of new blooms, she went straight to work.

First the blooms...
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520 Casey in the Tulips
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Then the work she did...
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520 Casey Driving the Tractor
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Say what you will, I say it's a darn fine thing that she has had her little surgeries and is once again capable of doing her fair share.
All kidding aside, this was an irresistible photo op.



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The crab apple tree is in bloom also. And after the trimming it had a year and a half ago, methinks it looks like some pink and purple two~headed troll.
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519 Crab Apple from the window
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My own old crab tree seemingly pales in comparison to what Miss Micki has written on Baby Mariahs Caring Bridge Site
CLICK FOR HER SITE
"The crab apple trees next to Mariah’s grave in the cemetery have bloomed and they are just gorgeous! I tried to take a picture but pictures really don’t capture the beauty of it at all. The flowers are pink and there’s just enough shade to have a picnic underneath. We purchased the tree next to Mariah’s grave so that we can hang anything on it we wish to. There will eventually be a plaque underneath it that will represent the Klein Family."

*Micki, if you stop by to read this, please know that I read your blogs. I have updated my info on Caring Bridge a while back and it worked for a time... Now I keep trying to comment and it won't work. As always, I do send my heart & love to your whole family.
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I also took this picture from my bedroom window- Peeking through the yews are the tulips that I had waited ever so long for. They are now almost wilted and done for yet another year.
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519 Tulips from the window
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Wednesday today, and I brought the garbage dumpster out just before sunrise.
(I also collected my mail that had been waiting for me since Saturday).
sigh... Somebody MUST have stolen that Publisher ClearingHouse Check.
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520 Morning Moon House Orb
Do you see the quarter moon peeking through the blossoms?
Centered. Almost. About an inch or so down.
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I went out to the pumphouse and dragged Punks little pool out. I tried to fill it, but the water leaked out.
(Will have to fix it with my Gorilla Tape when I find the leak).

She had enough water in there to get her paws wet to about 2", and thought it grand enough!
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520 Punk in the pool

I love her little smiles!
(And I shall fix that looming rain gutter as soon as my back permits).
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And yes, Punk found herself tied up for a while...
When we had been in the house there was a new cat out on the front lawn. She damn near had jumped through the window to get to it.
She remained tied until Casey and I determined that the cat was gone.
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For those of you keeping up, or wanting to, this was on the news.
Kelli called to tell me to turn the news on tonight
http://www.wbay.com/Global/story.asp?S=10398403
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Woman Found Dead in Oconto County Fire Was Murdered
Updated: May 20, 2009 04:49 PM
Authorities in Oconto County say a woman found dead in a house fire near Pulaski last week was murdered before the fire was set.

Trust me when I say this, no one wanted to be wrong about my intuitions more than myself. By now you all know that I have a tendency to call a spade a spade...
I also shoot from the hip- (both literally and figuratively).

I know that I have offended at least one of you by stating how I felt about this all before the coroner had released this today. My apologies for that.

As of the 6 o'clock news
no one is in custody. Oconto County is notoriously slow or absent with their arrest records, (or at least that was my own experience when my daughter was raped and almost bled to death). Idiots.

Time will tell how they handle her murder, and the arson that followed.

When we have children, we want and choose to raise them in a way that we feel to be safe, secure, and away from the dark-spirited people of the world. Moving from the townhouses in Ashwaubenon to being way out in the country in Pulaski seemed a wonderful relocation for us all, and most especially for my girls.

Things are not always what they seem.

My love to all.

XOXO
Anne


Posted to Y! 360, Wednesday May 20, 2009 - 09:46pm (CDT)

Couple of Short Updates

514 Bug
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Casey took this picture!

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Good Evening;
First of all, an update on the fatal fire.
The Oconto County coroner does not have a cause of death for the gal that died in the house fire on Jaworski Road.
WBAY~TV said they are awaiting for the "test results", which should be available in about 10 days.
I cannot watch the videos, (dial~up here), but I think this would be the latest about her.

***ALSO, tomorrow is the village sale...
Pulaski's village-wide rummage sale is a draw for bargain hunters, but Kari Splan sees the annual event as an opportunity to help four young children who lost everything, including their mother, in a house fire. CLICK HERE. Cool!

This is all so sickening, and overwhelming. But I am ever so proud of everyone that has turned out to help.

As for my back...
Yes, I did go for my doctor appointment; and no, I did not refuse the xrays.
(I think I should have). hehehe  I firmly believe that radiologist tried to kill me. But at least he had a sense of humor. First thing he says is "please lay on your back." Funny guy.   (Too bad he wasn't kidding).

After 5 different angles, he said I could get up from the table. (See? I told you he was funny).

Yes I still have the arthritis in my back. I also have the trauma fracture from last Spring that did not heal correctly, AND I seem to have wrecked 4 disks. Instead of being rounded and soft, they are thin and not working right.

The doctor told me to stay off my feet for 3 days, and then to "see how it goes" after that.  I will need to return if it doesn't let up.
That is all I know for now. Oh that- and it hurts.

Wait.
I also know my haddock is done baking! Mmm  My tummy knows it too. hehehe
Time for me to get off my backside too- Perhaps even to nap after I eat.

Have a "wunnaful" weekend.
Please send a couple of lawn guys, (and a gardener too).

XOXO
Me



Posted to Y! 360, Friday May 15, 2009 - 07:00pm (CDT)

Animals. Bugs Ears. And Death.


A picture like this is never a good thing...
Stolen from WLUK FOX 11



Good Morning Everyone...
Last week I had blogged about Miss Polly. Polly and her husband Rich were our neighbors back when we all lived NE of Pulaski on Jaworski Road- They now live in Wyoming.
Miss Polly had come to Green Bay to visit last week
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507 Casey and Polly Hotel
Casey and Polly at the hotel.
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Before moving back to the homestead here, I'd raised my daughters on Jaworski Road near Pulaski.
While our neighbors AFTER Polly and Rich were nothing to write home about, this is still very awful and sickening news, and one would never wish for anything so terrible to happen to anyone.
CLICK HERE.
What news to wake up to.

I am not sure, (having had no reason to keep in touch), I do believe that the home is still owned by the same man who lived there after Rich and Polly moved.
I have heard that he has since remarried. (It was his previous "woman" that had been responsible for me obtaining a retraining order against the lot of them).
His new lady had moved in shortly before we had sold our home.
I never met her, nor knew her.

That house burned this morning- By the time the fire department got there, the entire back of the home was engulfed in flames.
The children ages, 11, 7, and 3, taking their pets, got out and went to the neighbors across the street.
Their mother died in the fire.
I pray that if she had to die, that she never woke to begin with.
But then what, or who, would have woken the children?
When we lived there, the man would go in to work very early, so he had probably already left for the day.

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514 Jaworski 2

Our
home, (1988-1998) is on the left.
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The farm was originally owned by Andrew Jaworski himself, and built in the early 1930's. The house (ours) is concrete, poured from silo staves.

In its day, this was a very productive and active farm. But there came a time for Andrew to retire and for the eldest son to take over running the family farm. At that point, Andrew Jaworski erected the modular home next door to his.
*This arrangement did not last past Andrews death. I believe he passed on shortly before we bought the home from his son. 1988.

In the shot above, with the reporter blocking the view, (& to the left of the driveway), is a row of maple trees that I had planted as teeny tiny saplings the summer we had moved in. All the girls carried many pails of water to these little trees those first two years. I also planted a row of red cedars along the north end of our property.

Also blocked from view is a privacy fence installed by my buyer- between the two houses. (I am thinking they may have also had problems with these neighbors as well).

Be that as it may, again, no one ever wishes this on anyone for any reason.
I am sure I will learn more about everything as the day goes on.


With respect to my back, I am still not moving well at all. I have made yet another appointment for tomorrow afternoon.
(If offered, I promise not to refuse xrays this time).   Grrr
In the meanwhile, it is quite painful to even take a shower and get dressed.
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(No worries, I shower and dress anyway).


In addition to my own vitamins and supplements, know that I am very tempted to begin taking Punks pills too!
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Punk meds
Hey!
...It helps Punks back, why not mine?

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I do not know what has happened to my robins nest. Casey and I checked it on Tuesday- and this is what we found...
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512 Baby Robin
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I shall recheck today or tomorrow,
but I know something awful must have happened

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Casey took my garbage out for me on Tuesday also.
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512 Casey Garbage
Still cute as a bugs ear!
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Kelli had also stopped by that evening, offering to roll my dumpster to the end of the driveway for me too. What on earth do people do without family and friends?
(Personally, I cannot think of a worse way to live than to choose to live without).

While unable to really 'help' me out, Punk has been the epitome of compassion. When I go outside she will bring me her toys; and instead of laying them at my feet, she lifts them up for me.
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512 Punk

Holy Bugs Ears!
She's kind of cute too!


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And what does Mr. Sputnik do???
Absolutely nothing!


But he does dream of catching the wren in the box outside the kitchen window.
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512 Spitnik

He would care less if I fell over and died.
(Methinks I know people like that too).
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Heck, he's probably waiting for me to keel over so he can have lunch.
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So... speaking of that dreaded shower, it is time for me to get in there.

Hope you all are having a good day; and that you always make a bit of time to pray for your families, your friends, and your neighbors too.

XOXO
Me


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Special note to my main troublemakers, Casey and Jenné;
Take a close look...
Perhaps obscured, hmmm?... But it does seem as though the darn silo is gone?
I'm thinking Chris and Cheryl might not care to die of early and untimely heart failure.




Posted to my Y! 360, Thursday May 14, 2009 - 11:06am (CDT)